Anonymous
Beloved of All
My dad and brother are so mysoginistic. They minimize females who they can't control or make them insecure (just by existing). They don't like girls being pretty, dressing up, wearing makeup. They minimize them like if they were nothing and all women were the same and treat us as if we were the same for having our own personalities, likes, dislikes, thoughts, values, etc. They hate that and try to treat us like if we were nothing and just a blank thing ready for them to makeup whatevever they want about us. They have been doing this to me for years and the worst part, nobody cares, everybody believes them because they are the men. They have changed my story to my liking over and over again, idk how many times, and get mad at me because I don't change it because I will always say the truth but they say my life don't matter what matters is what is beneficial to them and that is why I have no worth and aren't someone who matters in their life. Only my brother's wife because she dreses like a boy and is a mysoginistic as them, always puttin gdown other girls and always manipulating and doing everything they want to do to women, and she supports it, gives them ideas, etc. She is the only women that has "worth" and is "different". She has hurt our life and our relationships but no one cares. Everyone just expects us to be complacent to being destroyed by them because "that is what christian women should do" or else, we are fake, evil, and everything they say. I am so tired of feeling alone in this and being ripped apart over and over again by them and eveyrone just cheering them on. I have prayed about this but nobody cares. Everyone just listens to their voice. God seems to bless them and we just continue to get used, ripped apart, blamed for their abuse which they never take responsability from, they just lie, twist the blame on the victim and wash their hands because it will always be the womens fault. I am so tired. I am starting to doubt there is God. I faught against that for so long and remained faithful but the abused of these two and my brother's wife continues and they continue to get stronger. They now have control over my life, my studies, my job, everything including other womens, a long with our social reputation, because of course, we can't have our own style, or ideas, nothing. We are supposed to be blanks or be like his wife or else we deserve to pay. Worst part, most people reading this will only focus on my faith as always...who cares if I am stuck and it continues to happen, le'ts pray for the female to be "this way" and for her to have strength to endure the abuse. No one cares.