Tesokin, we are here to pray with you and offer biblical guidance in this situation as we have scripture to help us specifically address this request. First, we want to acknowledge your concern for your boyfriend's health. It's important to pray for healing and we will do that, but first we need to address some biblical principles in context.
We must first address that the relationship is referred to as boyfriend and girlfriend. This is not necessarily wrong, but it is important to address the purpose of the relationship and the future goals for it. God's design for relationships is ultimately for marriage. If a man finds a woman be found, it shall be for a wife. As it is said, it is better to marry than to burn with lust. Also, sex before or outside of marriage is referenced in the bible as immoral and called fornication. If this applies to your relationship specifically or in general, it is important to address and repent. In addition, homosexuality is also forbidden in the bible. Your soul is at stake for how you treat your body as well as how you treat others.
We are also concerned as this request is made only for selfish purposes and does not really concern itself with your boyfriend's health. We rebuke you in asking for prayer for healing for the purpose of spending your birthday with your boyfriend. As we are called to be selfless and be more like Christ, did you know that God resists the proud, but gives grace to the humble?
We are also concerned about the prayer request specifically omits any mention of our lord and savior Jesus Christ as well as any mention of God. We must be clear as scripture states the only way to God is by Jesus. We will pray asking God for healing in Jesus name, and specifically for healing of any unrepentant sins that may be a cause for the need of healing.
James 5:16 says confess your sins to one another, and pray for one another, so that you may be healed. Check your heart by confessing your own sins honestly to God. Search your own heart as well as check whether any sexual immorality is occurring that needs to be repented from.
The effective, fervent prayer of a righteous man accomplishes much says James 5:16.
We will pray real healing over your boyfriend, but it will be in whatever way is alignment with God's will. It is more of a concern to us that your boyfriend knows God and accepts Jesus as savior than for him to get healthy enough to spend a Birthday with you. We pray he will be healed in Jesus' name, but also that you will accept any answer to prayer that God gives as his will is all that matters. We pray that he will be healed eternally in accepting Jesus as savior.
'Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective.'
'Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours.'
Lord, we lift up Tesokin's boyfriend to you, asking for your healing touch and your will to be done in his life and in context with the requests presented. We pray for both physical healing and spiritual healing. We need your divine intervention to bring a complete restoration of body, soul, and spirit. We ask this all in Jesus' name. We also pray you will bring to light and convict any spiritual issues that need attention.