AmazingGrace
Humble Prayer Partner
I am trying to get together more prayer warriors for my friend Andy. He has chosen to be with a woman who has just caused utter chaos in his life. He left for Reno to be with her again, but he said he's very much in love with her and wants to be with her. For the last few months he has been seeing her, but he would say that he needed to let her go because she's ruined his life and then immediately after he would get sucked back in by her. I have been helping him out a little financially, but unbeknownst to me he would spend all his money on her in Reno, her kids, and her roommate. He'd always come back broke. He would call me for help. I even gave him money for his son's lunch. I also had to buy him groceries and clothes. He even asked money from his mother so he can financially support this woman. But we had no idea he was doing this until this past weekend when he went to see her again. He is so obsessed with her that he would kill himself for her. He seems to believe that he is a light for her and that he wants to save her and show her a better and honest life. But he, in turn, has been influenced by her and has turned into a liar, manipulator, and a drug abuser. He has now lost his job over this woman (kept calling in sick & missing work to see her) he entrusted his car to the woman's sister's fiance and now his car is gone. His house is foreclosing, he is going through a divorce, and he has started to cut off his family and close friends. I have already told him he was not given the task to save this woman when he needs to be saved himself. He used to be a really good guy, someone I was proud of. I still have hope for him. I truly believe that Satan has brought this woman into his life to destroy him. I am praying that it does not happen. I want to plan an intervention and I am hoping God will give me the right words of wisdom, but right now he doesn't want to speak to me. I have confronted the woman and told her that ever since he's met her he's been a mess and that he needs help. I told her to let him be, but she doesn't even care. Thank you all who are continuing to pray for him.