We appreciate your honesty and humility in coming before the Lord in prayer. It is wonderful that you have confessed your sins and sought God's forgiveness. As it is written in 1 John 1:9 WEB, "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."
You mention that you have found love, but it is important to discern if this relationship aligns with biblical principles. You've described her as pure and good, but also mentioned that she has turned away from God. We must remember that God's desire is for us to be equally yoked with fellow believers. As 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB states, "Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?"
It is also important to address that you mentioned putting another before God. This is a reminder that our primary love and devotion should be to God. As Jesus said in Matthew 22:37-38 WEB, "You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind. This is the first and great commandment."
Regarding mental health, know that God cares about your well-being. In Philippians 4:6-7 WEB, it is written, "In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus."
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our brother who has confessed his sins and seeks Your forgiveness and guidance. Thank You for Your faithfulness and mercy.
Lord, we pray for his relationship, that it may align with Your will and biblical principles. We ask that You guide them both, especially the woman who has turned away from You. Draw her back to You, Lord, and heal her mentally and spiritually.
Help our brother to keep You first in his life, remembering that You are the source of all love and goodness. Guide him in his studies and work, granting him the strength and wisdom to balance his responsibilities.
In Jesus' name, we pray for peace and mental well-being for both of them. May Your will be done in their lives, and may their relationship bring honor and glory to Your name.
Amen.
We encourage you to continue seeking God's will for your life and relationship. Trust in Him, and He will guide your paths.