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My Husband and Daughter died 5 months apart. My other Daughter and her family of 5 have moved in with me. They are not clean. My house is being destroyed by them. They are hoarders. I can not live alone so out of fear that they will leave me all alone I have not mentioned their mess directly. Only subtle hints that I need help getting the house and yard cleaned up. I plan to leave the house to her when I die. I’m ### years old and retired. I live on Social Security only. Because of the mess in the yard. And my grandchildren leaving the door open. I now have a rat in my house! We are all living in a tent in my backyard until we can get this rat out! We have tried everything for a month now! It won’t take any baits, traps or anything we try. Please pray that God will tell this vermin to get out of my house! And for God to tell my ### to do better on cleaning things up and living cleaner! She was not raised this way. It started after she married. They have now been married for ### years. She isn’t always nice to me. She makes me feel unwanted in my own home. We used to be very, very close. But, again since she married that has changed. JESUS PLEASE HELP ME!
 
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We understand that you are facing a difficult situation with your daughter and her family living with you and the challenges that come with it. Let's address the issues and pray together for God's intervention.

Firstly, it's important to address the cleanliness and hoarding issues in your home. The Bible teaches us to be clean and orderly, as seen in 1 Corinthians 14:40 WEB: "Let all things be done decently and in order." Hoarding and uncleanliness can lead to problems, as you're experiencing with the rat infestation.

Regarding the rat issue, we can pray and ask God for His help. However, God often works through practical means. It might be helpful to seek professional pest control services to address this problem. In Deuteronomy 28:7 WEB, God promises that He will "cause your enemies who rise up against you to be defeated before you. They will come out against you one way, and will flee before you seven ways." While this verse refers to spiritual enemies, it can also apply to physical pests, symbolizing that God can drive away the rat if we put in the effort as well.

Concerning your daughter's behavior, it's important to communicate openly and lovingly with her. In Ephesians 4:15 WEB, we are encouraged to speak the truth in love. Avoiding direct communication out of fear can lead to more significant problems. Pray for courage and wisdom to address these issues lovingly. We are told in John 8:32, "You will know the truth, and the truth will make you free."

It's also crucial to address the change in your relationship with your daughter. Pray for restoration and healing in your relationship. In Malachi 4:6 WEB, God promises to "turn the hearts of the fathers to the children, and the hearts of the children to their fathers."

Additionally, it's commendable that you mentioned the name of Jesus in your request. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. Remember the promises in Romans 10:13, "For whoever will call on the name of the Lord will be saved," and John 14:13-14, "Whatever you will ask in my name, that will I do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son. If you will ask anything in my name, I will do it."

Let us pray:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister who is facing challenges in her home. Lord, we ask for Your intervention in driving away the rat that has invaded her home. Guide her to the right professionals who can help her with this issue.

Lord, we also pray for her daughter and her family. We ask that You speak to their hearts and minds, encouraging them to maintain a clean and orderly home. Help them to see the importance of cleanliness and address the hoarding issues.

Father, we pray for open communication between our sister and her daughter. Give them the courage and wisdom to address these issues lovingly. Heal their relationship, Lord, and restore the closeness they once had.

In the name of Jesus, we pray for peace and order to be restored in her home. Help our sister to live in a safe and clean environment.

We ask all these things in Jesus' name. Amen.
 
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Oh, dear friend, we're so sorry to hear about the struggles you're facing. It's like your house has become a battlefield, and you're feeling overwhelmed and alone. We're here for you, and we want you to know that you're not alone in this fight.

First, let's pray for strength and courage for you. In the face of all this, it's easy to feel weak and powerless, but remember the words of Joshua 1:9, "Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go." Let's claim that promise together.

Next, let's ask God to give you wisdom in how to approach your daughter and her family. We know it's hard to speak up, but sometimes, tough love is what's needed. In Proverbs 27:17, we're told, "As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another." Maybe it's time to have a heart-to-heart conversation with them, speaking the truth in love, just as Ephesians 4:15 encourages.

And let's not forget to pray for that pesky rat problem. We believe that God can handle even the smallest of creatures. Let's ask Him to send a divine pest control team to take care of that issue.

Lastly, let's pray for healing and restoration in your relationship with your daughter. We know that God is in the business of mending broken relationships. Let's ask Him to work in both of your hearts, turning them towards each other, just as Malachi 4:6 promises.

We're here to support you, and we'll keep you in our prayers. Together, we can trust that God will see you through this challenging time. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
 
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Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so.
Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 
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We continue to lift you up in prayer, dear sister, ever grateful for the privilege to intercede on your behalf. We stand in agreement with you, petitioning our Lord for a resolution to the challenges you're facing in your home.

If the Lord has already intervened and your request has been answered, we would be overjoyed to hear your praise report. Your testimony will be an encouragement to others and a testament to God's faithfulness.

If you're still waiting for a breakthrough, we want you to know that we are here to support you. If your daughter and her family have not yet made progress in cleaning the house or if the pest problem persists, please share an update. We will continue to pray for God's intervention, for Him to soften your daughter's heart, and for restoration in your relationship.

We are praying fervently for God's comfort and guidance as you navigate these trials. May He grant you wisdom, patience, and the courage to have open and honest conversations with your daughter about the state of your home. We are also praying for your daughter and her family, that their hearts may be turned towards cleanliness and order, and that they may treat you with the love, respect, and kindness you deserve.

In the meantime, we bless you in the name of Jesus Christ and pray that you continue to seek His face, trusting in His perfect plan and timing. May He surround you with His unfailing love and strength as you wait expectantly for His answer.
 
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