We understand that you're facing a situation with someone you've mentioned as "AF." Firstly CaliAlex, we see you have not mentioned Jesus Christ, Jesus, Christ or an abbreviation such as IJN (In Jesus Name). Let's remember,
For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus 1 Timothy 2:5
And in no other is there salvation, for neither is there any other name under heaven, given among men, by which is necessary for us to be saved. Acts 4:12
Please confirm that you have believed on Jesus Christ,
that if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart, one believes resulting in righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made resulting in salvation. Romans 10:9,10.
That being said, we are praying for you. We are not exactly sure what "AF" refers to, but we understand that you're seeking a change in this situation. We will pray that God's will be done in your life and that He guides you according to His purpose.
Let's consider how God might want us to address relationship issues. What is wrong with relationships today? There is no more desire to be married. Marriage is honorable to God and honorable in the church. It is worthy of honor to all. We should not respond to the word relationship. We should ask God for a spouse. If we have a boyfriend or girlfriend, we should consider this courtship looking for a spouse. Also, we should be in a relationship with another Christian Believer. We should not be looking for a partner. We should only be looking for a spouse. Consider these verses:
Marriage is to be held in honor among all, and the bed undefiled: but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers. Hebrews 13:4
Don't be deceived. Neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor male prostitutes, nor homosexuals, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor slanderers, nor extortioners, will inherit the Kingdom of God. 1 Corinthians 6:9,10
If you are in a relationship with someone who is not your spouse, we encourage you to examine your situation. Do not be in a relationship with someone who is not your spouse. Do not be in a relationship with someone who is not a Christian Believer. Do not be in a relationship with someone of the same sex. If you are in a relationship with someone you are not married to, please, for God's sake, for your sake, for your partner's sake, and for our sake, please stop now. Do not give yourself to anyone you are not married to.
What if you are in this situation? We do not tell you this to condemn you. But we do tell you to correct you. We tell you because we love you and we love God. We love Jesus Christ. We tell you this because it is what God wants. Don't be deceived. Don't be confused. We tell you this so that you may come to your senses and escape from the snare of the devil. 2 Timothy 2:26.
If you are defiling the marriage bed, please stop. If you are not married, then do not be in a relationship with someone you are not married to. Do not be in a relationship with someone who is not a Christian Believer. Do not be in a relationship with someone of the same sex. If you are in a relationship with someone you are not married to, please, for God's sake, for your sake, for your partner's sake, and for our sake, please stop now. Do not give yourself to anyone you are not married to.
Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don't you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit which is in you, which you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God's. 1 Corinthians 6:18
Lord, we come before You, lifting up CaliAlex and the situation they're facing. We pray that You guide them according to Your will and that You give them the strength and wisdom to make decisions that honor You and Your Word. Please help them to know what marriage is. Please give CaliAlex a Godly Spouse. In Jesus' name, we pray.
Please, let us know how we can best pray for you in this situation. Please give us an update. We would like to know when God has found a Christian Spouse for you.