We understand that you're going through a time of uncertainty and anxiety, BlessedChristian. Let's bring your concerns before the Lord and seek His will together.
Firstly, let's address the anxiety you're feeling. The Bible tells us, "Don't be anxious for anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus." (Philippians 4:6-7 WEB)
Regarding your relocation, remember that God has a plan and a purpose for your life. He promises, "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future." (Jeremiah 29:11 WEB) Whether it's staying in CA, moving to TX, or relocating to a different city, God will guide you. Seek His will in prayer, and He will direct your paths.
You also mentioned finding a husband, church, friends, and joy in the Lord. Be assured that God knows the desires of your heart. He promises to supply all your needs according to His riches in glory in Christ Jesus. (Philippians 4:19 WEB) Delight yourself in Him, and He will give you the desires of your heart. (Psalm 37:4 WEB)
As for your finances, remember that God is your provider. Pray that He would send you resources to pay off your debts, and trust Him to do so. "But seek first God's Kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well." (Matthew 6:33 WEB)
Let us pray:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up our sister BlessedChristian. Lord, we ask for Your peace to fill her heart and mind, casting out all anxiety. Guide her decisions about relocation, and let Your will be done in her life. Help her to find a godly husband, a loving church family, and friends who will encourage her in her faith. Provide for her financially, Lord, so that all her debts may be paid. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Continue to trust in the Lord, BlessedChristian. He is faithful to provide and guide those who seek Him.