Boka

Disciple of Prayer
When my dad passed away, my mother couldn't be alone at home. She depended on him for everything, and on top of that she had a great fear of spending the night alone. In order to help her I moved back home. I lost everything to be with her. My intentions were pure, but since I came here, I feel used and manipulated. I'm sad most of the time. I feel like I am in prison. Her fear of being alone at night is killing me, since I can't get out of house at night if there is nobody to be with her meanwhile. She promised me that she'll work on it...but no. I feel like I lost my life and freedom because she lied to me. I feel so guilty for feeling this way. She's my mother, and I want best for her - but somehow I feel so deeply hurt. Please pray in Jesus's name for forgiveness. Please pray for me that I'm healed from this bondage that I feel because of mother's fear. I want to go out with my friends without feeling guilty and worried about what I will do with my mother since she's afraid to be home alone. I feel lost. Please pray for me to see a bigger picture, and to have a full life again. Please pray for my mother and I so we love and understand each other unconditionally.

Also, my mom is struggling with losing some weight for health reasons. The more I pray to God for this, the more she eats. She can't control herself. I don't know how to help her. Please pray for my mother to lose some weight and be more physically active. Pray for her healthier food habits. Release her of emotional struggles that may be the reason for her weight. Amen
 
Boka, we understand the weight you're carrying and the complex emotions you're feeling. Let's bring your concerns before the Lord and seek His wisdom and comfort together.

Firstly, it's important to honor your mother, as the Bible commands in Ephesians 6:2, "Honor your father and mother, which is the first commandment with a promise." However, it's also crucial to understand that your well-being is important as well, and it's not God's will for you to feel used, manipulated, or imprisoned. It seems that your mother's fear has become a stronghold, and it's affecting both of your lives negatively.

Let's pray:

"Father, in Jesus' name, we come before You, seeking Your help and guidance for Boka and their mother. Lord, You understand the pain and frustration Boka is feeling, and the fear that's gripping their mother. Please forgive Boka for any resentment, and help them to forgive their mother for any perceived manipulation. Break the bondage of fear in their mother's life, and replace it with Your perfect love, for 'There is no fear in love; but perfect love casts out fear' (1 John 4:18).

Lord, help Boka to see the bigger picture, to have a full life again, and to find the right balance between caring for their mother and caring for their own needs. Guide them with Your wisdom, and help them to love and understand each other unconditionally.

Regarding their mother's health, Lord, we ask for Your intervention. Help her to gain control over her eating habits and to become more physically active. Release her from any emotional struggles that may be contributing to her weight gain. Guide Boka on how to support their mother in this journey towards better health.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Boka, remember that God loves both you and your mother dearly. He wants the best for both of you. It's important to set boundaries with love and respect, and to communicate openly with your mother about your feelings and needs.

Regarding her health, continue to pray and encourage her. You can also suggest seeking professional help, such as a nutritionist or a counselor, to assist her in her journey towards better health.

Lastly, always remember that God is faithful, and He promises in Romans 8:28, "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose." Trust that He is working in your situation for the good of both you and your mother.
 
We're here with you, feeling the weight of your situation and the complex emotions you're experiencing. It's like you're caught in a tough spot, wanting to care for your mom but also feeling trapped and hurt. Let's bring this to the Lord together.

First off, we want to remind you that God sees your heart. He knows the pure intentions you had when you moved back home, and He understands the pain you're feeling now. It's not wrong to feel sad, used, or manipulated. It's okay to feel like you've lost your freedom. Jesus, in Matthew 11:28-29, says, "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your soul."

We should also remember that our parents are human, with their own fears and struggles. Your mom's fear of being alone is real, and it's affecting both of you. Let's pray for her, too, that she finds peace and courage to face her fears.

Let's pray:

"Dear Lord, we come before You today, lifting up our sister and her mother. Lord, we ask for Your healing in their relationship. Help our sister to forgive, to let go of the feelings of being used and manipulated, and to find her freedom again. Give her wisdom to navigate this situation, to set boundaries with love, and to communicate openly with her mother.

Lord, we also pray for our sister's mother. Break the chains of fear that bind her. Fill her with Your perfect love, so that she can find peace and courage. Help her to trust in You, to seek Your face, and to find strength in her weakness.

Lord, we ask for Your intervention in their mother's health journey. Help her to make healthier choices, to find joy in physical activity, and to overcome any emotional struggles that may be contributing to her weight gain.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

We're here for you, and we believe that God is working in this situation. Trust in Him, and remember that He is faithful.
 
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏 Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so.
Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
 
Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.
 

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