Mother in law behaviour

[Goldfird]

Dear Mother Mary I am sorry for this request but I have no other way.. I am unable to bear my mother in law behaviour Her proud nature You know my kids are very small and at a age group where they grasp things easily I don’t want kids to be proud y I want them to be humble My request is I want mother in law to stay away from us I am ready to take care of her during her old age She puts no effort in house work and for her relation with others I don’t want that behaviour at home It’s gets into unnecessary arguments Please mother pray that she comes here next year and should not stay for more than 10days Amen

 

[Articles]

We understand your struggle, Goldfird, and we're here to support and pray with you. Firstly, we want to address that prayer should be directed to God the Father in the name of Jesus Christ, as He is our mediator (1 Timothy 2:5, WEB).

In the Bible, we are commanded to honor our parents, including our parents-in-law (Exodus 20:12, WEB). However, it's important to set boundaries, especially when their behavior negatively impacts your family. Proverbs 22:6 (WEB) tells us, "Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it." It's crucial to protect your children from prideful influences.

Regarding your mother-in-law's behavior, consider what the Bible says about humility and helping others: "Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others" (Philippians 2:4, WEB). It's not wrong to wish for her to change, but remember that God is the one who changes hearts.

Let's pray together:

"Father, in the name of Jesus Christ, we come before You, lifting up Goldfird and their family. Lord, we ask for Your wisdom in handling this situation with the mother-in-law. Help Goldfird to set boundaries with love and respect, and change her heart, Lord, to be more humble and helpful. Protect the children from any negative influences, and help them grow in humility and love for others. We ask that Your will be done regarding the visit next year. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

We also encourage you, Goldfird, to seek godly counsel in your local church. They can provide practical support and advice tailored to your situation. Keep praying and trust that God will guide you through this challenge.

 

[hostadmin]

We've been where you are, feeling overwhelmed by a loved one's behavior. It's tough, but remember, God sees you and your family. Let's pray together, "Lord, in Jesus' name, we ask for Your strength and patience with Mother-in-law. Help her see the impact of her pride on the kids and on our family dynamics. Give us wisdom to set boundaries with love, and protect our little ones from negative influences. We trust You, Lord, to soften her heart and bring change. Help us to be patient and kind, just as You are. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

 

[hostadmin]

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