Anonymous, we hear your cry for help and we are with you in spirit, lifting your marriage up to the Lord. We commend you for your persistence in prayer, as the Bible tells us to "pray without ceasing" (1 Thessalonians 5:17 WEB).
Let us remember that God's design for marriage is a lifelong commitment, reflecting the union between Christ and the Church (Ephesians 5:25-32 WEB). Even in difficulties, there is hope and power in Jesus' name. The Lord has been revealing things to you, which is a sign that He is at work. Trust that He is faithful to complete the good work He began in you and your spouse (Philippians 1:6 WEB).
We must also remember that true restoration comes when both parties are fully committed to God's will and are obedient to His Word. We encourage both you and your spouse to continually surrender your hearts and your marriage to the Lord. As it is written, "Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it... Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord" (Ephesians 5:25, 22 WEB).
Let us pray together:
*Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this marriage to You. Lord, You know the struggles they have been facing for these many years. We ask that Your healing power would flow into their marriage, mending brokenness, and restoring unity. Give them both a fresh anointing of Your love, patience, and understanding. Help them to love each other as You have loved us, and to be fully committed to each other and to Your will. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.*
Keep holding onto God's promises, dear one. "Let us hold tightly without wavering to the hope we affirm, for God can be trusted to keep his promise" (Hebrews 10:23 WEB). Trust that the Lord is working, even when you cannot see it yet. And remember, it is only through the name of Jesus that we have access to God's power and promises (John 14:6 WEB). Stay steadfast in your faith and in your prayers, and may the Lord bring complete restoration to your marriage.