More Prayers Needed for Future Marriage

[meena_]

First, thank everyone for praying for me and my future marriage with Brad. I want to thank God that this website exists for people who need prayer and can receive it quickly. I wanted to share that even though Brad and I still communicate, I am losing hope and patience as time continues since he keeps doing a cycle of putting all the fault/blame on me rather than taking accountability for his actions, which also resulted in our disagreements. He still continually tells me that the party is wrong since we have become "slaves" to my family and is unnecessary in his eyes. He is also upset because he thinks I have put my family above him when the only reason why I'm pursuing the party is to bring my family honor. I repeat my reasoning to him many times out of the love God has given me, but he seems to be blind and deaf in receiving what I'm saying. I am also worried because it looks like my family will make me move to another state with them to be closer to other family members, meaning I will be even further away from Brad. It feels like Brad and I are on a time crunch now to resolve this issue so we can have the party soon on the path to marriage. Please pray for Brad that God moves in him, convicts, and humbles him. Pray that God searches Brad's heart and gives him peace over the relationship and my family. Pray that my family has peace over him and doesn't purposely hinder Brad and me from being together after he agrees to do the party. Pray that God will help me in everything because life has been stressful for me in general. Pray for Brad to stop creating disputes purposely with me and verbally agree to do the party for my sake. Please keep me and Brad in your prayers in Jesus's name, amen. Thank you.

 

[Articles]

We understand your concern for the future of your relationship with Brad, and we commend you for seeking God's will in this situation. We will pray with you and provide some biblical guidance.

Firstly, we want to remind you of what the apostle Paul says in Ephesians 4:2-3 (WEB), "with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love; being eager to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace." It's crucial to maintain patience and gentleness in your interactions with Brad, even as you express your needs and concerns.

However, we also want to address some issues in your request. The Bible teaches us about the importance of personal responsibility. In Matthew 7:3-5 (WEB), Jesus says, "Why do you see the speck that is in your brother’s eye, but don’t consider the beam that is in your own eye? Or how will you tell your brother, ‘Let me remove the speck from your eye,’ and behold, the beam is in your own eye? You hypocrite! First remove the beam out of your own eye, and then you can see clearly to remove the speck out of your brother’s eye." It's important for Brad to take responsibility for his actions, and you should encourage him to do so.

Regarding the dispute about the party, we want to remind you of the commandment to honor your father and mother (Exodus 20:12, WEB). It's commendable that you want to bring honor to your family, but it's also important to consider Brad's feelings and work towards a compromise that respects both your family and your relationship.

We also want to address the fact that you mentioned the name of Jesus at the end of your request, which is essential because, as the Bible tells us in John 14:6 (WEB), "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.'"

Let us pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before you in the name of Jesus, lifting up Splanchnomos and Brad. Lord, we ask that You work in Brad's heart, convicting him of any wrongdoing and humbling him. Help him to see the importance of taking responsibility for his actions and understand the value of honoring Splanchnomos' family. Lord, we also ask that You grant Splanchnomos patience, wisdom, and strength as she navigates this relationship. Please guide them both towards a resolution that honors You and brings peace to their relationship and families.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

We encourage you to continue seeking God's will for your relationship. Trust in Him, and He will guide your paths (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB).

 

[hostadmin]

We've been thinking about you and Brad, and we want you to know that we're right here praying with you. We understand that this situation is complex, and it's easy to feel overwhelmed. But remember, God is in control, and He wants the best for both of you.

We've been reflecting on Philippians 4:6-7 (WEB), which says, "Don't be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus." We encourage you to keep pouring out your hearts to God, trusting that He is listening and will guide you both.

We've also been reminded of the importance of communication and understanding in relationships. It's crucial to express your needs and feelings clearly and calmly, and to listen to Brad's perspective as well. We encourage you both to practice active listening, seeking to understand rather than just waiting for your turn to speak.

We're praying for God to give Brad a heart of understanding and humility, that he may see the value of your family and the importance of taking responsibility for his actions. We're also praying for God to grant you patience, wisdom, and strength as you navigate this relationship. We ask that God would guide you both towards a resolution that honors Him and brings peace to your relationship and families.

Please know that we're here for you, and we'll continue to lift you and Brad up in prayer. Trust in God, and remember that He is working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28). You're not alone in this, and we believe that God has a wonderful plan for both of you.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Let Us Pray: God Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus' name to please bless me with everything I stand in need of, and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, strength, and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to prosper, have excellent health, and have an ever growing closer stronger more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always honor, respect, and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps, actions, and words.

God heal me, body, soul, and spirit. Cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, pray Your best for me, and all those I love and care about. God please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[EnricoLange]

Lord Jesus please help in accordance with your perfect will Father. Thank you.

 

[Niolage]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

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I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[hostadmin]

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.