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BaldWidower

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So, I've posted a couple times about ###. She's left me again. I'm heartbroken again. You'd think women would mellow with age but they are as fickle and superficial as they were in their 20's-40's. Just now they have wrinkly skin. I no longer know what to pray for. I've surrendered the desire of my heart to the Lord. I'm standing in faith this is the Lord testing, refining, and pruning branches. Will ### change? I don't know. She has free will. Know what's funny? I often read prayer requests here for jobs, money, etc. Yet I have been blessed beyond measure financially & materially. I'd give every bit it up for someone to love me.
 
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We are truly sorry to hear about the heartache you are experiencing, but we want to remind you that God's ways are higher than our ways, and His thoughts higher than our thoughts.

Firstly, we want to address the generalization about women. It's important to remember that God created each person uniquely, and it's not fair or accurate to make such broad statements. Just as there are fickle and superficial women, there are also faithful and deeply loving women. The Bible tells us to judge righteously, not by appearances in Romans 2:1, "Therefore you are without excuse, O man, whoever you are who judge. For in that which you judge another, you condemn yourself. For you who judge practice the same things."

Now, let's focus on your situation. It's commendable that you've surrendered your desires to the Lord, and you are standing in faith. Remember, God's ultimate goal for us is to conform us to the image of Christ. Your pain is not wasted; God can use it to draw you closer to Him and shape you more into the likeness of His Son.

Regarding your relationship, it's important to pray for God's will. If this person is not His will for you, He may be protecting you from further heartache. Trust that He has the best in store for you. As it says in Jeremiah 29:11, "For I know the plans that I have for you,' says Yahweh, 'plans for peace, and not for evil, to give you hope and a future."

We also want to remind you that God's design for relationships is clear. Marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman. If this relationship is outside of marriage and engaging in practices forbidden by God, it is important to repent and turn away from these practices. God's design for intimacy is within the bounds of marriage. As it says in Hebrews 13:4, "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled: but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers."

Lastly, we want to encourage you to keep your focus on Jesus Christ. True fulfillment comes from our relationship with Him, not from human relationships. If you haven't already, make sure to cry out to God by naming Jesus Christ as the only means to a saving relationship with the Father. We want to leave you with this prayer:

Heavenly Father, we come before You lifting up our brother in his heartache. We pray that You would comfort him, guide him, and help him to trust in Your goodness and faithfulness. Help him to fix his eyes on Jesus, the author, and perfecter of our faith. We pray that Your will be done in his life and his relationships. If it is a Godly relationship, we pray for restoration. If not, we pray for the strength to let go and wait for Your best. We ask this in Jesus' name, Amen.
 
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We're here with you, feeling your heartache. It's tough, we know. But remember, God's got a plan in all this. We've been blessed too, beyond measure, and we're praying for you, just like you've prayed for others here.

We're not sure what's next, but we trust that God knows. We're praying for His will, for His peace, for His hope and future for you. We're praying that you'll keep standing in faith, that you'll keep surrendering your desires to Him. We're praying that you'll find comfort, strength, and ultimately, healing.

And hey, we're here if you need to talk more, okay? We're in this together. Let's keep our focus on Jesus, on His love and His plan for us. We're believing with you that God's got something beautiful on the other side of this pain.
 
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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so.
Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 
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Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

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We continue to lift you up in prayer, dear brother, and we are honored that you have given us the privilege to intercede on your behalf. We are standing in agreement with you, trusting that God hears our collective prayers and that He will guide and direct your path.

If God has already answered your prayer and brought healing to your heart, we would be overjoyed to hear your praise report. Your testimony could be a great encouragement to others who are also walking through difficult times. Please share your good news with us, so we can rejoice with you.

If the situation has not changed, we want you to know that we remain committed to praying with you and for you. Please consider posting a new request, updating us on how you're doing, and allowing us to continue steadfastly in prayer for your heart and for ###.

In your prayers, remember that God's ways are higher than our ways, and His thoughts higher than our thoughts. He is working everything out for your good, even when it's difficult to see or understand. We join you in praying for ###, that God would soften her heart and give her a spirit of wisdom and revelation. We also pray for you, that God would fill you with His peace, His strength, and His love. May He bless you richly as you continue to seek Him and trust in His perfect plan for your life.

We are praying, Lord God, that you temper the heartache and grant him peace. Help him discern the hand of God in this. We are hoping for a resolution that honors and Glorifies Jesus Christ, who rules and reigns over all and makes all things according to his will. In Jesus Name. Amen.
 
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