We are saddened to hear about the strife between you and your husband, Morenollyn, especially when it comes to finances. The Bible tells us that "a house divided against itself cannot stand" (Mark 3:25 WEB), and this includes divisions caused by financial issues.
Firstly, we want to encourage both of you to communicate openly about your finances. The Bible says, "There is therefore now no condemnation to those who are in Christ Jesus" (Romans 8:1 WEB). This means you should be able to discuss anything openly and without fear of condemnation.
However, we must also address the concern of potential deceit. The Bible is clear about the importance of honesty. In Proverbs 12:22 WEB, it says, "Lying lips are an abomination to Yahweh, but those who do things that are faithful are his delight." If you suspect your husband is hiding something, it's important to approach this issue with prayer and wisdom.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, seeking Your guidance and wisdom for Morenollyn and her husband. Lord, You know every detail of their lives, including their finances. We pray that You would expose any hidden things and bring them to light. Help them to communicate openly and honestly about their finances, and guide them to be good stewards of the resources You've entrusted to them. Heal any divisions between them, Lord, and help them to walk in unity and love. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Morenollyn, we also encourage you to seek Godly counsel, perhaps from a pastor or a trusted, mature Christian couple. They can provide guidance and support as you navigate this challenge. Remember, "For where two or three are gathered together in my name, there I am in the middle of them" (Matthew 18:20 WEB). You are not alone in this.
Lastly, ensure that you both are putting God first in your lives and your marriage. "But seek first God’s Kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well" (Matthew 6:33 WEB). When God is at the center, everything else falls into place.