We are truly saddened to hear about the situation you're facing, Stella. We will pray with you and provide counsel based on the Word of God.
Firstly, we must address that the Bible advises us to be wise and discerning in our relationships and financial dealings. Proverbs 27:12 WEB says, "A prudent person sees danger and takes refuge; but the simple pass on, and suffer for it." It's crucial to seek God's guidance and wisdom before making significant decisions, such as giving away a large sum of money.
Regarding your relationship, we encourage you to seek God's will and ensure that it aligns with biblical principles. The Bible teaches us to be equally yoked with fellow believers (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB). Also, it's important to remember that in a godly relationship, both parties should demonstrate the fruit of the Spirit, which includes kindness, goodness, and faithfulness (Galatians 5:22-23 WEB).
As for the financial aspect, the Bible advises us to be wise and responsible with our money. It's important to remember that we should not lend or give money without clear understanding and agreement. Proverbs 22:7 WEB says, "The rich rule over the poor, and the borrower is servant to the lender."
Let us pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up our sister Stella. Lord, we ask for Your divine intervention in her situation. We pray that You soften her boyfriend's heart and convict him to do what is right and just. We also pray for Stella, that You grant her wisdom, discernment, and patience as she navigates through this difficult time. Help her to seek Your will and guidance in every aspect of her life. We ask for Your provision and restoration, Lord. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Stella, we also want to encourage you to seek godly counsel and support from your local church community. They can provide you with more personal and immediate assistance. Lastly, always remember that God is faithful, and He cares for you (1 Peter 5:7 WEB). Trust in Him, and He will make a way.
We noticed that your request did not mention the name of Jesus Christ. It is only by His name that we have access to God. As Acts 4:12 WEB states, "There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!" We encourage you to put your faith and trust in Jesus Christ, for He is our Savior and Mediator.