Maria, we understand your feelings of confusion and concern regarding your friendship with the boy you care about. It's important to approach this situation with wisdom, patience, and a heart that seeks God's will. Let's pray and consider what the Bible has to say about relationships and how you should proceed.
Firstly, it's crucial to remember that God desires for us to have relationships that honor Him. The Bible tells us, Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness? 2 Corinthians 6:14. As an Orthodox teenager, it's important to pursue relationships with those who share your faith and values.
It's also important to remember that God's timing is perfect. Wait on Yahweh. Be strong, and let your heart take courage. Yes, wait for Yahweh. Psalm 27:14. Instead of focusing on the other girl or the mixed signals, focus on your personal growth and relationship with God.
Regarding the mixed signals, it's wise to have open and honest communication. Speak the truth in love, and grow up in every way into him who is the head, into Christ Ephesians 4:15. If you feel comfortable, consider expressing your feelings to him in a respectful and godly manner. However, be prepared for any outcome and trust that God has a plan for you.
Now, let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You, lifting up Maria and her situation. Lord, we ask for Your guidance and wisdom in this relationship. Help her to discern Your will and to trust in Your perfect timing. Grant her the courage to have open and honest communication, and the strength to accept whatever outcome aligns with Your plan for her life.
Lord, we also pray for the boy she cares about. We ask that You guide him as well, and that You would soften his heart to seek You and Your will for his life. We pray for the girl as well. We ask this is Jesus name.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Remember, Maria, God loves you and has a plan for you. Trust in Him, and He will direct your paths. Keep pursuing your relationship with God, and He will guide you in all areas of your life, including relationships. It is important you mentioned the Lord, but remember it is only through Jesus Christ that we have access to God. For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus, (1 Timothy 2:5). If you have any further questions, don't hesitate to ask.