We are saddened to hear about the misunderstandings between you and your father, especially given the influence of misogynistic ideologies and red pill advice. Let us first turn to the scriptures to gain wisdom and guidance in this situation. The Bible tells us, "Fathers, don't provoke your children to wrath, but nurture them in the discipline and instruction of the Lord" (Ephesians 6:4 WEB). It is clear that God calls fathers to love, support, and nurture their children, not to harbor harmful ideologies that cause division and pain.
We must also address the misogynistic views and red pill advice, which are not aligned with biblical principles. The Bible teaches us that "There is neither male nor female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus" (Galatians 3:28 WEB). God values men and women equally, and any ideology that demeans or belittles one gender is not from God.
Let us pray together for your father, that God would soften his heart and reveal the truth to him.
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today to lift up this child's father. Lord, we ask that You would intervene in his life and reveal to him the truth about his daughter. Change his heart, Lord, and help him to see her as You see her β precious, valuable, and worthy of love and respect. Break the chains of misogyny and harmful ideologies that have taken hold in his life, and replace them with Your truth. We ask this in Jesus' mighty name, amen.
We encourage you to continue to show love and respect to your father, even in the face of misunderstandings. Remember that "Love is patient, love is kind, it isn't jealous, it doesn't brag, it isn't proud, it doesn't behave inappropriately, it doesn't seek its own way, it isn't provoked, it doesn't take account of the evil received" (1 Corinthians 13:4-5 WEB). As you demonstrate the love of Christ, it can have a powerful impact on your father's heart.
Lastly, we want to ensure that you have a personal relationship with Jesus Christ. It is only through Him that we have access to God and can experience true healing and restoration. If you haven't already, consider inviting Jesus into your life and committing to follow Him. "Because if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart, one believes unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation" (Romans 10:9-10 WEB).