Missing my ex and feeling depressed and empty. Looking to align myself with God

[Spleunran]

Please give me a powerful prayer to help me with my ex. I love her so much and miss her and I’m struggling with the anxiety and my feelings for her. I’m trying to align myself with God and stay faithful to his ways but my heart and feelings are all over he prayer. And I feel like I’m not supposed to give up but then see things that make me heart break or question everything once again

 

[Articles]

We understand that you're going through a difficult time, Spleunran, and we want to help you align your heart with God's will and find peace in this situation. First, let's address your feelings and the biblical perspective on relationships.

It's natural to feel depressed and empty when we're separated from someone we care about, but as believers, our ultimate source of fulfillment and joy should be Jesus Christ. He says in John 15:11 WEB, I have spoken these things to you, that my joy may remain in you, and that your joy may be made full. It's important to remember that He is the source and He should be our focus. We should never allow another person to take that place in our hearts.

Regarding your feelings for your ex, it's crucial to understand God's design for relationships. The goal of courtship should be marriage and God speaks about this in 1 Corinthians 7:2 WEB, But because of sexual immoralities, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband. This means that if your relationship with your ex was not aligned with God's design for intimacy, which is marriage between a man and a woman, then it may be causing more harm than good.

In addition to aligning with God's design for marriage, it is crucial to be equally yoked with a fellow believer. This is made clear in 2 Corinthians 6:14-16 WEB, Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness? And what concord has Christ with Beliar? Or what portion has a believer with an unbeliever?

It's also important to remember that God's ways are not our ways, and His thoughts are not our thoughts. For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways, and my thoughts than your thoughts. Isaiah 55:8-9 WEB. He may have a different plan for your life than you imagine, and holding on to past relationships may hinder you from moving forward in His will. Be honest with yourself about the relationship you had. There is a reason why you are not together. This is not the relationship that God has for you or you would still be together. Seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. Matthew 6:33 WEB.

Now, let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You today, lifting up Spleunran, who is struggling with feelings of depression, emptiness, and anxiety over a past relationship. We pray that You would comfort their heart and fill them with Your peace that surpasses all understanding. Help them to cast all their anxieties on You, because You care for them. 1 Peter 5:7 WEB.

Lord, we ask that you would help Spleunran to align their heart with Your will and Your ways. Help them to fix their eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith. Hebrews 12:2 WEB. Give them the strength to let go of the past and trust in Your plan for their future.

We also pray that You would guide Spleunran in their future relationships. Help them to seek after a spouse, not just a partner, and to pursue relationships that align with Your design for marriage. Give them the discernment to recognize the person You have prepared for them, and the wisdom to build a godly marriage that honors You.

Finally, Lord, we pray that Spleunran would come to know You more deeply through this trial. Use this situation to draw them closer to You and to strengthen their faith. Help them to trust in You with all their heart, and not to lean on their own understanding. In all their ways, help them to acknowledge You, and direct their paths. Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Be strong and courageous, Spleunran. God is with you, and He will never leave you nor forsake you. Deuteronomy 31:6 WEB. Continue to trust in Him and seek His will for your life. Surrender your desires to Him and allow Him to guide your steps. In time, He will bring the right person into your life – His chosen helpmeet for you.

If you find that you are truly struggling with letting go, fasting and prayer is useful in these situations. Jesus spoke about this in Matthew 17:21 WEB, But this kind doesn't go out except by prayer and fasting.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here for you, just as we're here for each other. It's tough when we're separated from someone we care about, and it's okay to feel depressed and empty. But remember, our joy and fulfillment come from Jesus, not from any other person. He's our source, and He wants to fill us with His peace and love.

We know it's hard to let go, especially when we still love someone so much. But sometimes, God has different plans for us than we have for ourselves. He might be nudging you to move forward, to trust Him with your future. It's not about giving up, but about surrendering to His will.

Let's pray together: Dear Lord, we lift up our friend to You. Comfort their heart, fill them with Your peace, and help them to trust in Your plan. Give them the strength to let go of the past and the wisdom to build a godly future. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Keep trusting in Him, one day at a time. And remember, we're in this together. If you need to talk, we're here. And if fasting and prayer can help, don't hesitate to try. Jesus said, "This kind [of spirit] does not go out except by prayer and fasting." (Matthew 17:21)

 

[EnricoLange]

Lord Jesus please richly bless, protect and guide them. Please help them in accordance with your perfect will Father. Thank you and praise you. In your holy name I pray. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

New Year's Prayer 2025

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[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[usha rani]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We continue to feel honored that you shared your heart with us and allowed us to pray with you during this challenging time. We are upholding you in prayer, trusting that God is working in your situation and that you are finding peace and comfort in Him.

If you have seen signs of progress or felt God's presence in your journey, we would be delighted to hear a praise report from you. Your story could encourage others who are going through similar circumstances. If you are still struggling with feelings of depression, emptiness, or anxiety regarding your ex, please don't hesitate to share an update. We want to continue standing with you in prayer and belief for God's best in your life.

We are praying that God will give you the strength to align your heart with His, and that you will find comfort and peace in His love. We ask, in Jesus name, that He will guide your emotions and help you to trust in His perfect plan for your life. We are here for you, and we believe that God is working things out for your good right now.