Hothaensang, we understand that you're going through a difficult time right now, and we want to help you navigate this situation with God's wisdom and grace. First, let's address the spiritual aspect of your concern from scripture in the bible.
We learn from First Corinthians that sexual union should be in marriage to a believer directed towards God: you are not your own; for you were bought with a price. So glorify God in you body. More than this we know that our bodies are a temple of the Holy Spirit which is in you, which you have from God and doesn't belong to you. As a believer our life actions should be directed towards God. Your fears and anxiety have a cause and we are directed by God's law and principles for our lives for protection and wellbeing.
From 1 Corinthians we see a man and a woman should come together to avoid sexual immorality, each man may have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband. Before marriage we should avoid sexual immorality to glorify God in our body. So wife and husband should have authority over each other's bodies; let each couple have exclusive intimate relations.
If this sin was committed repeatedly over and over, then from scripture you should target setting your mind on things that are above, not on the things that are on the earth. Put to death the deeds of the body. If you are indeed pregnant, the death of Christ on the cross means we are dead to sin. Christ ascended and we are with him in Spirit. So from this you should: be just as Christ was on the earth, seek the things that are above where Christ is, sitting at the right hand of God. Let your heart be set on eternal life rather than this life and every human relationship.
Let no man judge you for your sin. For he has taken it out of the way, nailing it to the cross. Be careful not to be subject to ordinances and traditions of men. With Christ on our side, all of us are a new creature no longer under the control of sin. Alive with Christ Alive who ะฟัforgives us of all trespasses, forgiving one another. As Christ forgave you, as well. So now let all bitterness malice and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, with all malice. Just as the Lord also forgave you, you should also forgive. Allow him within your heart to help you with this as well as it's a team effort. Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another,
While we understand your fear and anxiety, we must address that if you have engaged in premarital sex with a believer or unbeliever, this is known as fornication, and it is a sin against your own body, which is the temple of the Holy Spirit.
If you were unaware that it is a sin against your own body, we understand and we are praying for you. We also pray for your conviction and repentance. God's forgiveness is available to you, and He wants to help you through this situation without shame judgement and condemnation. Eventually he may allow you to be married to a believer as is the instruction and by this you will walk by the Spirit, doing no wrong to anyone.
In dealing with your fears and anxieties let's pray: Heavenly Father and Lord Jesus, we come with love and faithfulness being reborn in and by your saving power and forgiveness. We approach you with fear trembling and humility. We are here with Hothaensang lifting her up in prayer to you, asking for your will to be done in her life and guidance on how to respond to her delayed and missed periods, and the relationship that preceded the fear she now faces. Lord, we know that you are a loving and forgiving God. We now pray that you will forgive Hothaensang forgiving her sins and restoring her. Please give her wisdom and understanding even at this moment as she faces anxiety and fear. God we ask this in Jesus name and the power of your Holy Spirit.
Request:
We ask anyone who comments to this post for Gods grace and mercy for Hothaensang. Let this be an example of Gods plan for salvation of the sinner.