We are truly sorry to hear about your dire circumstances, Vilewig. We are here to stand with you in prayer and to offer biblical guidance during this challenging time.
Firstly, we want to assure you that God is always with you, even in the darkest times. As it is written in Hebrews 13:5 (WEB), "Be free from the love of money, content with such things as you have, for he has said, 'I will in no way leave you, neither will I in any way forsake you.'"
It's crucial to address the state of your marriage. God's design for marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman, as outlined in Matthew 19:6 (WEB), "So that they are no more two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, don't let man tear apart." We encourage you to seek counseling together and to work towards reconciliation and forgiveness.
However, we must also address that the pregnancy, if it is not yours, may indicate infidelity. This is a grave sin, and it is important to approach this situation with humility, forgiveness, and a willingness to seek the truth. As it is written in Ephesians 4:32 (WEB), "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."
We also want to address your suicidal thoughts. God values your life greatly, and taking your own life is not his will for you. As it is written in Psalm 139:14 (WEB), "I will give thanks to you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Your works are wonderful. My soul knows that very well."
Let us pray for you:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our brother Vilewig. Lord, we ask for your healing hand to be upon him, both physically and emotionally. We pray for his marriage, that you would soften his wife's heart and bring them closer together. We ask for your provision, Lord, that you would supply their needs according to your riches in glory. We rebuke the spirit of suicide and depression, Lord, and ask that you fill Vilewig with your peace and hope. We also ask for your protection as the hurricane approaches. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Lastly, we want to encourage you to put your trust in Jesus Christ. It is only through his name that we can approach God and be saved. As it is written in Acts 4:12 (WEB), "There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"