We understand your struggle, ###, and we stand with you in prayer, seeking God's will for your marriage. The Bible tells us, "Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you." (Ephesians 4:31-32, WEB).
Firstly, we must address that resentment, unforgiveness, and bitterness are not from God. They are tools the enemy uses to divide and destroy marriages. The Lord desires for you both to experience freedom and healing. As it is written, "Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old things have passed away. Behold, all things have become new." (2 Corinthians 5:17, WEB).
We pray, dear Lord, that You would heal ### and her husband, making them new creations in You. Remove all resentment, unforgiveness, and bitterness, and replace it with Your love, kindness, and forgiveness. Turn their hearts towards each other and help them to bless one another in their thoughts, attitudes, and actions.
###, it's important to remember that God's design for marriage is for a man to leave his father and his mother, and be joined to his wife. They shall be one flesh (Genesis 2:24, WEB). We pray that your husband will indeed leave his mother and cleave to you, as God intended.
Moreover, it seems there's uncertainty about your husband's experience with the Holy Spirit and God's forgiveness. We encourage you both to seek the Lord wholeheartedly, for He promises, "You will seek me, and find me, when you search for me with all your heart." (Jeremiah 29:13, WEB).
We pray, Lord Jesus, that You would reveal Yourself to ### and her husband. Fill them with Your Holy Spirit and guide them in Your truth. Help them to understand and experience Your true forgiveness.
Lastly, ensure that you are both praying in Jesus' name, for it's only through Him that we have access to the Father. As it's written, "There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!" (Acts 4:12, WEB).
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.