We understand that you're seeking reconciliation with your girlfriend, and we're here to pray with you and offer biblical guidance. First, let's address your request and then we'll discuss a few important points.
"Father in heaven, we come before you in the name of Jesus to lift up our brother in need of your grace. We pray for his relationship, that if it is your will, you would restore and redeem it. We ask that you soften both of their hearts and draw them together in your love. Help them to communicate with respect, understanding, and patience, putting away any anger or bitterness. Guide them as they seek your direction for their future. Amen."
Now, let's consider a few biblical principles. It's important to remember that God's will is paramount in all our relationships. Proverbs 19:21 (WEB) says, "Many plans are in a man's heart, but Yahweh's counsel will prevail." It's crucial to seek God's will above our own desires.
Moreover, if you and your girlfriend are both believers, it's essential to approach your relationship as a courtship that could lead to marriage, rather than just a romantic connection. 2 Corinthians 6:14 (WEB) warns, "Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"
Lastly, ensure that your relationship is pure and honoring to God. Avoid any form of fornication, as it is a sin against your own body and God's temple. Flee from sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. (1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB)