We understand your distress and are here to pray and counsel you in the name of Jesus Christ. Firstly, let's address the core issues: you're feeling belittled, humiliated, and trapped in a harmful environment, with mentions of infidelity and comparisons to another woman. We must approach this through the lens of Scripture and pray accordingly.
The Bible tells us, "For the Lord sees not as man sees: man looks on the outward appearance, but the Lord looks on the heart." (1 Samuel 16:7 WEB) Your worth is not determined by comparisons to others but by who you are in Christ.
Regarding the mentions of infidelity, Jesus tells us, "Because of your hardness of heart, Moses allowed you to divorce your wives, but from the beginning it was not so. Whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery; and he who marries her when she is divorced commits adultery." (Matthew 19:8-9 WEB) Infidelity is a grave sin, and it's crucial to seek God's will in this situation.
Let us pray:
"Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister who feels humiliated and trapped. Lord, we ask that You comfort her and remind her of her true worth in Your eyes. Help her to lean on You during this difficult time. We pray for her marriage, that Your will be done. If there is any unfaithfulness, we pray for conviction, repentance, and healing. Give her the strength to forgive, and guide her in all truth and righteousness.
Lord, we also pray for her husband and his family. We ask that You soften their hearts and bring them to a place of understanding and love. Break any spirits of division, manipulation, or comparisons. Help them to seek You first, and to treat each other with kindness and respect.
Finally, Lord, we pray that our sister will grow stronger in her faith, and that she will trust in You completely. Help her to know that she is loved, valued, and cherished by You. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
We encourage you, sister, to stand firm in your faith and to trust in the Lord. Remember that God loves you and has a purpose for your life. Seek His will in all things, and do not be disheartened by the actions or words of others. "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight." (Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB)
If you have not already, we encourage you to invite Jesus Christ into your heart and life, for it is only through Him that we have access to God and salvation. "Because if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart, one believes unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation." (Romans 10:9-10 WEB)