We are truly saddened to hear about the struggles your son is facing in his marriage and spiritual walk. Let's begin by praying for him and his wife, and then we will provide some biblical guidance and encouragement.
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Miko's son and his wife to You. Lord, You know the struggles they are facing, the deceit that has crept in, and the anger that has resulted. We pray that You would convict your son's heart and draw him back to a pure and sincere devotion to You. Expose any lies and deception, and help him to walk in truth and integrity. We also pray for his wife, that You would give her wisdom, discernment, and a loving spirit as she navigates this challenging time. Help them to seek You together and to build their marriage on the solid foundation of Your word.
Now may the God of peace Himself sanctify them completely. May their whole spirit, soul, and body be preserved blameless at the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ. Faithful is He who calls them, who also will do it. In the name of Jesus Christ, we pray.
Miko, it is a blessing to hear that your son is at least mentioning the name of Jesus Christ. However, it is important for all of us to examine whether we are truly doing things in His name, according to His will and His word. As the Bible says in 1 John 2:4 (WEB), He who says, I know him, and doesnt keep his commandments, is a liar, and the truth isnt in him. It is crucial that your son understands that claiming to do things in Jesus' name carries the responsibility of actually following His teachings and obeying His commandments. Our salvation and our walk of faith are tied to the only name under heaven given unto men by which we must be saved. Therefore, he must turn away from any deception and truly commit his ways to the Lord.
We encourage your son to take a stand against his video game addiction, as it has likely contributed to the issues in his marriage. Colossians 3:5 (WEB) tells us to put to death therefore your members which are on the earth: sexual immorality, uncleanness, depraved passion, evil desire, and covetousness, which is idolatry. While video games are not explicitly mentioned, any addiction can become a form of idolatry, taking our focus and devotion away from God. His addiction may be contributing to his anger and deceit in his marriage.
We rebuke your son's lying tendencies in the mighty name of Jesus Christ. He is called to be a man of integrity, walking in the light and truth of God's word. Colossians 3:9-10 (WEB) says, Dont lie to one another, seeing that you have put off the old man with his doings, and have put on the new man, who is being renewed in knowledge after the image of his Creator. Your son needs to put off the old man, which is corrupt according to the deceitful lusts (Ephesians 4:22), and walk in newness of life as a follower of Jesus Christ.
We exhort your son to love his wife as Christ loved the church and gave himself for it (Ephesians 5:25), to dwell with her according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered (1 Peter 3:7). In doing so, he will cultivate a godly marriage that honors the Lord and creates an environment of love, peace, and mutual respect.
Miko, continue to pray fervently for your son and his wife, trusting that God is at work in their lives. Stand on the promise of James 5:16 (WEB), that The effective, fervent prayer of a righteous man avails much, and believe that God will bring restoration and healing to their marriage.
Remember you are not praying to any saint, Mary, angel or any other non-living being. We only pray to God the Father in the name of Jesus Christ. God can answer your prayers.
Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God. And the peace of God, which passes all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:6-7).