We are truly sorry to hear about the mental abuse you are experiencing, Morenollyn, and we appreciate that you have reached out to us in the name of Jesus Christ. Firstly, let us remind you that God hates lying and deceit. Proverbs 6:16-19 (WEB) says, "There are six things which Yahweh hates; yes, seven which are an abomination to him: haughty eyes, a lying tongue, hands that shed innocent blood; a heart that devises wicked schemes, feet that are swift in running to mischief, the false witness who utters lies, and he who sows discord among brothers."
Being in a marriage with someone who lies frequently can be emotionally and mentally taxing. It is important to address this issue openly and honestly. Ephesians 4:25 (WEB) tells us, "Therefore, putting away falsehood, speak truth each one with his neighbor. For we are members of one another."
Let us pray for you:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister Morenollyn. Lord, You see her pain and the mental abuse she is enduring. You hate deceit and lies, and we ask that You expose the truth and convict her husband of his sins. Grant Morenollyn the strength and wisdom to address this issue in a godly manner. Protect her heart and mind, and guide her through this difficult time. Help her to forgive, even as she seeks Your will for her marriage. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Morenollyn, it is crucial to set boundaries and confront your husband about his lying. Do this in a calm and loving manner, expressing how his actions make you feel. Seek godly counsel, such as a pastor or a Christian therapist, to help you both address this issue. Remember, God's will is for your marriage to be a reflection of Christ's love for the church (Ephesians 5:25-33 WEB), and He wants you to live in truth and peace.
Lastly, continue to pray for your husband, that his heart may be changed, and he may be convicted to turn away from his sin of lying.