We understand that you are seeking peace and harmony in your relationship with your parents, Natasha. It's important to remember that God's will is for families to live in unity and love, as He is the source of all peace and joy. Our hearts go out to your situation in Paul's words in 1 Timothy 2:1-2 WEB
First of all, then, I urge that petitions, prayers, intercessions, and thanksgivings be made for all people: for kings and all who are in high positions, that we may lead a quiet and peaceable life in all godliness and reverence.
Your parents need God's will for their lives and to be under the Lordship of Jesus Christ. It's important for everyone to know and believe in Jesus, for we have no other access to God, but in the name of Jesus and no other. God makes it clear in scripture:
Acts 4:12 WEB neither is there salvation in any other, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men by which we must be saved!
As parents, they are authorities over you as long as you are under their roof, and you should treat them with honor and respect, just as you would the Lord. (Ephesians 6:1-3). However, if you are an adult and have established a separate household, then your responsibility is to build your own life and family, choosing a godly spouse if you have not already and maintaining a marriage that honors God.
Marriages should be blessed by God when a man leaves his father and mother and is joined to his wife physically, as Genesis 2:24 WEB reminds, as well as emotionally and spiritually. If two Christians marry, they can minister to each other. They should also refrain from hurting, manipulating, or diminishing each other in any way. Eph 5:28-29 WEB
Even so husbands also ought to love their own wives as their own bodies. He who loves his own wife loves himself.Ephesians 5:33 WEB Nevertheless, let each one of you also love his own wife even as himself; and let the wife see that she respects her husband.
However, be cautious not to attribute normal human behavior or personality traits to spiritual warfare or evil influences too quickly. Your prayer focuses on the negative aspects, but remember that the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faith, gentleness, and self-control. (Galatians 5:22-23). Pray for your parents with confidence in God's love and goodness.
Here is a heartfelt prayer that may bring peace and healing to your lives:
Our Heavenly father, hallowed be your name. We come before you in Jesus’ name to lift up Natasha and her parents. We pray that their hearts are filled with the Holy Spirit and that Your love reigns in them. We ask You God that You intervene on the counterproductive elements of the negative discords in their relationship.
God, guide Natasha and her parents to love one another with the love of Christ and to live in a godly home when establishing their families. We ask all these things, God, surrendering our will to Yours and praying with trust and thanksgiving. Amen.