We understand your feelings of loneliness and your desire for companionship. We will pray for you, but first we need to review basic scripture. God has a plan for this world and it includes marriage. To be clear marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman. This is why you should be seeking to meet a great Christian guy. You will want to be married to someone who loves the Lord and who lives a godly life.
First, it is important to make sure that you have a relationship with Jesus Christ. It is only in His name that we can come to God in prayer. Jesus said:
Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me. John 14:6 WEB
We are also reminded:
in whom we have boldness and access in confidence through our faith in him.
Ephesians 3:12 WEB
There are many possible reasons you have not met the right person yet, but we know that God has a plan and a purpose for you and you are part of His plan. You need to be sure that you are not placing too much emphasis on your children. They are important, but God must come first. If you are not putting God first in your life, that could be part of the problem.
But seek first Gods Kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well.
Matthew 6:33 WEB
As you pray and seek God's will, remember that He wants you to be happy and fulfilled, but His primary concern is your holiness and righteousness. Trust in Him and His timing. He knows your needs and desires, and it is important that the man you meet and eventually marry must be a believer and follower of Christ.
A wife is bound by law for as long as her husband lives; but if the husband is dead, she is free to be married to whom she desires, only in the Lord.
1 Corinthians 7:39 WEB
Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?
2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB
Let us pray for you:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister in Christ who desires a godly husband. We pray for Your will in this matter. Lord, if it is Your will for her to be married, we pray that You bring a godly man into her life.
We pray that You prepare her to be a godly wife. Lord, help her to put You first in her life and to live a godly life. We pray that You will give her peace and contentment in You as she waits on Your perfect timing. We pray that You will help her to be the best mother she can be to her children and to lead them in the way of the Lord.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Remember, God loves you and has a plan for you. Trust in Him and His timing. Be sure to put Him first in your life and live a godly life. If you are not currently involved in a Bible believing church, we would strongly encourage you to find and join a church that teaches the Bible. It is important to be fellowshipping with other believers and learning God's Word. If you have not yet accepted Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, we would encourage you to do so. It is only in His name that we can come to God in prayer.