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[Swantalelf]

Help me accept being alone. It could be worse. Other people are going through the same things. If I do what is right, I will be okay. I want to accept my fate and be okay. I am scared and lonely. I know it takes time. I am not the only person who has gone through this. I will be okay. Help me stop grieving the loss of my marriage. Please keep me safe and prevent him from destroying me. I am trying to leave. Should I leave sooner? I do not want to make a mistake. This cannot be done, but he is just making things worse. Enough is enough. What is wrong with him? Why is he upset? He did not pay his bills. He gets mad at me because I told him it went into collections. He gets mad or does not think this could cause me problems. He cannot afford to pay our bills. We have already cut back. He got these bills behind my back. Why is he acting like that? I do not want to speed up time, but I am only putting up with him until I qualify for my own health insurance. Please do not let him make things worse. Why did he get married? Why does he refuses to compromise? Why doesn’t he leave and do the right thing? Why can’t he be a man and stop acting like a child? Why can’t we be happy? Why can’t he stop being selfish? Why doesn’t he care or support me? Please make him aware and leave me alone. Prevent me from triggering him and wishing for his death and life insurance. I hope he does not get sick or lose his job again or on purpose.

 

[Articles]

We understand your pain and struggle, Swantalelf, and we're here to support and pray for you in the name of Jesus Christ.

Firstly, let's address your feelings of loneliness and fear. Remember, God is always with you, and He promises to never leave you nor forsake you (Hebrews 13:5 WEB). You are not alone, even when it feels that way. Psalm 34:18 WEB tells us, "Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."

Regarding your marriage, it's clear that you're facing significant challenges. We need to remember that God's design for marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman (Matthew 19:6 WEB). However, God also cares about your safety and well-being. If your husband is causing harm or putting you in danger, it may be wise to seek help and consider separation as a step towards protection and healing. This doesn't necessarily mean divorce, but rather creating a safe space for you to find peace and for him to seek help.

It's crucial to communicate openly and calmly, perhaps with the help of a Christian counselor. As it stands, it seems that discussions about finances and responsibilities are leading to anger and resentment. Remember, "Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tender hearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you." (Ephesians 4:31-32 WEB)

We must also address your thoughts about your husband's death and life insurance. It's natural to feel overwhelmed and have intrusive thoughts, but it's important to reject these thoughts as they do not align with God's heart. Instead, pray for God's will to be done in your husband's life and your own (Matthew 6:10 WEB).

Let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up Swantalelf. Lord, she feels alone and scared, but we know that You are always with her. Comfort her with Your presence and love.

Lord, we ask for wisdom and guidance in her marriage. Help her to make decisions that honor You and keep her safe. Change her husband's heart, Lord, and help him to act in love and responsibility.

Help Swantalelf to forgive, just as You have forgiven her. Remove any bitterness or harmful thoughts, and replace them with Your peace and kindness.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Lastly, Swantalelf, remember that God loves you deeply and has a plan for your life (Jeremiah 29:11 WEB). Trust in Him, and He will see you through this difficult time.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, Swantalelf, standing in the gap and lifting you up in prayer. We know this is a tough time, but remember, God is right there with you, every step of the way. He promises, "Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you" (Hebrews 13:5 NIV). You are not alone.

We understand the pain and confusion you're feeling. It's like you're in a storm, and you can't see the sun, but it's still there, shining brightly. God is like that sun, always there, even when you can't feel His warmth.

We've been thinking about your situation, and we want to encourage you to keep seeking God's will. It's clear that your husband's actions are causing you harm, and that's not okay. We're not saying divorce is the answer, but your safety and well-being should be a priority. Have you considered seeking help from a trusted pastor, counselor, or a safe Christian community? Sometimes, an outside perspective can bring clarity and guidance.

Also, we want to remind you that God has a purpose and a plan for your life. Jeremiah 29:11 says, "For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." Trust in Him, and He will see you through this.

Now, let's pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up Swantalelf. Lord, she's feeling alone and scared, but we know You're always with her. Comfort her with Your presence and love. Give her wisdom and guidance in her marriage, Lord. Help her to make decisions that honor You and keep her safe. Change her husband's heart, Lord, and help him act in love and responsibility. Help Swantalelf to forgive, just as You have forgiven her. Remove any bitterness or harmful thoughts, and replace them with Your peace and kindness. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

 

[EnricoLange]

Lord Jesus please richly bless, protect, heal and guide them. Please help them in accordance with your perfect will Father. Thank you and praise you. In your holy name I pray. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.