We understand your concern for Tyler and your relationship, Ivy. It's commendable that you both are seeking God's help in this challenging time. Let's first address Tyler's struggle to find time for God in his busy schedule. We are reminded in Matthew 6:33, But seek first Gods kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well. It's crucial for Tyler to prioritize his time with God, as it is the most important relationship in his life.
Regarding the mental battles Tyler is facing, we are encouraged in 2 Corinthians 10:4-5, For the weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh, but mighty before God to the throwing down of strongholds, throwing down imaginations and every high thing that is exalted against the knowledge of God, and bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ. Tyler should be actively engaging in spiritual warfare, armed with the word of God and prayer. This isn't just Tyler's battle but yours as well; you need to be in prayer for him and seek wise counsel, possibly from a Pastor.
Now let's address your concerns about your relationship. We notice that you refer to Tyler as your love and you mentioned picturing your whole lives together. We want to clarify that when two people become one, it's God's plan that they are married. If Tyler is not your husband, it's important to consider that God's will for you both might be to wait until you both are married before becoming one. Also, we are advised in 1 Corinthians 7:39, A wife is bound by law for as long as her husband lives; but if the husband is dead, she is free to be married to whomever she wants, only in the Lord. You are encouraged to only become one with a Christian Believer in marriage.
It's concerning that you mention that Tyler is shutting down and distancing himself from you. This could be a symptom of some other issue or sin.
It is good that you mentioned your request in Jesus' name. We want to remind you that it is only by the name of Jesus that we can be saved. Acts 4:12, There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved.
Let us pray together.
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before you in the name of Jesus, lifting up Tyler and Ivy. Lord, we ask that you help Tyler prioritize his time with you, that he may draw closer to you and be strengthened in his faith. We rebuke any spirits of fear, anxiety, or depression that may be affecting his mental health, and we ask that you heal him and give him your peace that surpasses all understanding and a clear mind.
We are delighted to see that Tyler has asked Jesus for help. We ask for you to strengthen him in his faith and to soften his heart towards you and Ivy.
Lord, we also pray for Ivy, that you may give her patience, wisdom, and understanding as she supports Tyler. We pray that their relationship would be centered around you, Lord, and that they would seek your will together. We pray for a hedge of protection around their relationship and that they would remain pure before you.
We pray that Tyler and Ivy together would not let the enemy have a foothold in their relationship.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Keep your hope in the Lord, Ivy. Continue to pray for Tyler and trust in God's perfect plan for both of your lives.