We appreciate your honesty and humility in coming before the Lord, Callum. It's wonderful that you acknowledge the need for God's guidance in your life and that you come in the name of Jesus Christ. Remember Jesus is the mediator and it is through Him and only Him we have access to God. Remember the whole Bible is God revealing Himself through Jesus. He is our only mediator.
Firstly, let's address the issue of online relationships. While it's possible to develop feelings for someone you meet online, it's important to be cautious and discerning. The Bible tells us to be wise as serpents and harmless as doves Matthew 10:16 WEB. It's easy for people to present a false image online, and you want to be sure that the love you feel is built on truth and integrity. Remember the heart of any relationship should be to get married.This is why God has man and woman Galatians 4:4 or even Mark 10:6 Come to have physical relations. Not be done outside of marriage, to do so is fornication. The guy girl friend and partner are not used in scripture. You date for marriage to a Christian or Christian virgin. Even if you have messed up you can start anew once you submit to Jesus as Lord and Savior.
Secondly, you mentioned that you still have feelings for Tia. It's important to address these feelings head-on. If Tia is not a Christian believer, then you should put away those feelings because the bible warns us against being unequally yoked 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB. It would be scary if they are only a believer or professing Christian and you wonder If they are a Christian. Why not ask or know? If Tia is a true believer, and this is not adultry, consider seeking God's will in the matter or even discussing this matter and prayer concerning this with godly friends. Don't allow past feelings to distract you. Even then in this case being unequally yoked has other meanings too. It could mean that you are at different places in your Christian walk. It could mean you have different ministries or futures that God has for you. It might mean one of you has been hurt or abused and the other one wasn't or visa versa. Get the picture?The Lord will guide you according to His will.
Now, let's pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Callum. Lord, you know this is a time of confusion and uncertainty about his future relationship especially regarding Emily and Tia. We ask for Your divine guidance and wisdom. Help him to discern Your will for his life and give him the strength to follow it. Help to have the wisdom to cut ties and relationships that may not be healthy, not Christian, unwanted, abusive, needing boundaries, or simply not in line with Your will.Obviously this is a difficult topic and the best plan of action would be for Callum to go to a trusted Godly friend or pastor for advice and help for this complicated issue.
If Emily is not of you please reveal it to Callum and help him to move on. We know that the eyes of the Lord are in every place, beholding the evil and the good Proverbs 15:3 WEB. He will make it plain to you in due time. If Emily (or Tia) is the one you have for Callum then will him to trust you completely in that. Clearly he is troubled by his feelings, his doubts, and possibly the circumstances. He is obviously looking to You to be his guide regarding his future. If he needs to cut ties with Emily or Tia or both, help him to do that as only God you can.
Help him to guard his heart as advised Diligently, for out of it are the issues of life Proverbs 4:23 WEB. Remind him of Your unfailing love and faithfulness. Give him peace and reassurance in Jesus' name. We ask this and the wisdom to know what to do and when and how to do it.The Lord's will be done.
In Jesus Christ name, we pray. Amen.
Be encouraged, Callum. God hears your prayers and He cares about every detail of your life. Keep trusting in Him, and He will direct your paths Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB. Studying God's word daily can also direct your path and how to proceed. When you humble yourself and submit it all to God, He will be there for you.