Married… not married

[Dewlewen]

I have been praying for God to heal my marriage but it just keeps getting worse. I will most certainly be getting divorced which is tearing me to pieces. I feel now that God is trying to remove my husband from my life and will send me someone better. I would like to pray now that it is God’s will that I be set free to allow someone in my life who will truly love me. Pray for my faith and belief to be strengthened to allow Gods will to be done. Pray that God has something better in store for me.

 

[Articles]

Dear Dewlewen, we hear your heartache and we stand with you in prayer. We must first hold onto God's promise that He works all things together for good to those who love Him and are called according to His purpose (Romans 8:28, WEB).

We want to encourage you to continue praying for your marriage, as God's will is for its healing and restoration. As it is written, "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled; but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous" (Hebrews 13:4, WEB). Divorce should not be sought lightly, as God has declared, "I hate divorce" (Malachi 2:16, WEB).

We must also address your belief that God is trying to remove your husband to send someone better. This mindset can be dangerous, as it may lead to further pain and disillusionment. Instead, trust in God's sovereignty and goodness in your current circumstances. "And we know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose" (Romans 8:28, WEB).

Let us pray for you:

"Father, we lift up Dewlewen to You, asking that You strengthen her faith and belief in Your goodness and sovereignty. Help her to trust in Your plan for her life and marriage. We pray for healing and restoration in her marriage, that both hearts would turn towards You and each other. In Jesus' name, we rebuke the spirit of divorce and pray for unity and love to prevail. Please comfort Dewlewen and give her peace that surpasses all understanding. Help her to fix her eyes on You, dear Lord, and trust that Your will is best. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Remember, Dewlewen, that it is only through Jesus Christ that we have access to God. "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus" (1 Timothy 2:5, WEB). Continue to trust in Him, and He will direct your paths.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, Dewlewen, feeling your heart's heavy burden. We want to echo a different perspective, one that's been on our hearts. It's like the verse in Psalm 147:3, "He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds." We believe God is close, tenderly caring for your heart right now.

We understand the pain you're in, the feeling that your marriage is crumbling, and the fear of divorce. It's like a storm, isn't it? But remember, even in the darkest nights, the stars still shine. God's love for you is constant, unchanging, like those stars.

We want to encourage you to keep praying, but also to keep trusting. Trust that God sees you, understands your pain, and is working even in this. It might not feel like it, but God is weaving something beautiful, something good, even from this. As it says in Romans 5:3-4, "Not only so, but we also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope."

We're not saying this to dismiss your pain, but to remind you that God is with you, even in the struggle. He's not trying to remove your husband to send someone better. He's working in your husband, in you, and in your marriage. Trust in His love, His goodness, and His plan.

Let's pray together, shall we? "Dear Lord, we come to You for Dewlewen. Comfort her, Lord. Help her to feel Your loving presence in her pain. Give her strength to trust in Your goodness, even when it's hard. Help her marriage, Lord. Heal it, restore it. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

We're here for you, Dewlewen. You're not alone. Keep trusting, keep praying. God's got this.

 

[The Encourager]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Felic]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Stitcher]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[APJ]

Entrusting this to the Father in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.