We are truly saddened to hear about the trial you are facing, but we are here to pray with you and provide biblical guidance. Remember, God is always with you, even in the darkest hours. As it says in Deuteronomy 31:6 WEB, "Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for Yahweh your God goes with you. He will not fail you nor forsake you."
Firstly, we must address that divorce is not the will of God. Malachi 2:16 WEB says, "For I hate divorce," says Yahweh, the God of Israel." God's design for marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman. It is a covenant that reflects the relationship between Christ and the Church. In Ephesians 5:25,31. WEB, men are called to "love your wife, even as Christ also loved the church and gave himself up for her... For this cause a man will leave his father and mother, and will be joined to his wife. And the two will become one flesh."
We encourage you to continue to pray fervently for your marriage, but also to act in accordance with God's word. If there is any unconfessed sin in your life, confess it to God and, if appropriate, to your wife. Seek godly counsel, such as a pastor or a Christian marriage counselor. Be willing to forgive and ask for forgiveness. Love your wife as Christ loved the church, selflessly and sacrificially.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before you today, lifting up this man and his marriage. Lord, you see the pain and distress he is experiencing. We ask that you comfort him, give him strength, and guide him through this difficult time. We pray for his wife, that you would soften her heart and turn it towards reconciliation. We pray that you would remove any pride, anger, or unforgiveness that may be causing division.
We rebuke the spirit of divorce and ask that you would heal this marriage, Lord. Help them to see that you have a purpose and a plan for their family. We pray for restoration, for healing, and for a miraculous turnaround in their situation.
We also pray that you would draw this man closer to you during this time. Help him to cast all his anxieties on you, because you care for him. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Remember, God is faithful. Even in this trial, He can bring about a testimony of His goodness and grace. Trust in Him, and He will see you through.