We understand that you are facing several challenges in your marriage and personal life, and we want to lift you up in prayer and provide biblical encouragement.
Firstly, we want to address the importance of praying in Jesus' name. It is only through Jesus Christ that we have access to God the Father. As it is written in John 14:6 WEB: "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me." Therefore, we will be praying in Jesus' name.
Let's address the issues you've raised. We see you are having trouble with your spouse being overly clingy, putting others down and using foul language. The Bible teaches us, in Ephesians 4:29 WEB: "Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but such as is good for building up as the need may be, that it may give grace to those who hear."
We encourage you to talk to your spouse with the Bible as your guide to address these issues.
We also see that you are having issues with your adult children not visiting because of your spouse. This is a matter that should be handled delicately and with much prayer as the family dynamic is important. We will pray for God to intervene and bring peace.
Regarding your request for new friends, the Bible encourages us in 1 Thessalonians 5:11 WEB: "Therefore exhort one another, and build each other up, even as you also do." We trust that God will bring godly friends into your life to encourage and support you.
We also see that you are seeking peace and better sleep. The Bible tells us in Philippians 4:6-7 WEB: "In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus."
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister who is in need of Your divine intervention. Lord, we pray for her marriage, that You would help her spouse to be respectful, loving, and supportive as outlined in Your Word. Help them to communicate effectively and resolve their issues in a godly manner.
Father, we pray for her adult children, that You would heal any broken relationships and bring them together as a family. We also ask that You would bring godly friends into her life, to encourage and support her.
Lord, we pray for her peace and better sleep. Help her to cast all her anxieties on You, knowing that You care for her. We also pray for her job, that her bosses would recognize her hard work and that she would find favor in their sight.
Finally, Lord, we pray for her spouse's behavior, that he would act in a manner pleasing to You and he would walk in love. We pray that Your Holy Spirit will convict them both of anything wrong and lead them to repentance.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Lastly, we encourage you to seek God's will in all things and to trust Him with all your heart. He is faithful and will never leave you nor forsake you. Be strong and courageous in the Lord. God will see you and your family through this.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. 
