We are truly sorry to hear about the separation you're experiencing in your marriage, Wiyside. Let's bring your situation before the Lord in prayer and seek His will for your life.
Firstly, we commend you for your commitment to your marriage and for seeking counseling. It is clear that you are taking steps to reconcile and honor the marital bond that God has established, saying Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral. Hebrews 13:4 WEB.
However, we want to remind you that true change and reconciliation come from the heart, and God is the one who can transform hearts. As it says in Ezekiel 36:26, A new heart also will I give you, and a new spirit will I put within you; and I will take away the stony heart out of your flesh, and I will give you a heart of flesh.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up Wiyside and her husband. Lord, You know the pain and struggle they are going through. We ask, Father, that You soften his heart and bring about a miracle in his life. Help him to be open to the idea of counseling and reconciliation.
Father we ask forgiveness for any sins they may have committed against each other or You. We know that if we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness 1 John 1:9 WEB
We pray for healing, restoration, and unity in their marriage. Strengthen Wiyside in her faith and give her the peace that surpasses all understanding. Guide them both, Lord, and help them to seek Your will above all else, knowing that For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future. Jeremiah 29:11 WEB
We ask all of this in the precious name of Jesus Christ, who makes all things possible.
If you have not already, make sure to seek God wholeheartedly and pray together as a couple, when possible. Remember the promise in Matthew 18:20, For where two or three are gathered together in my name, there I am in the middle of them.
Stay strong in your faith and trust in the Lord's timing. He is always working things out for the good of those who love Him and we need to call on His name. There is no other name by which we can be saved. The basic salvation message is to believe in Jesus Christ and what he did on the cross for us. He is our savior and our hope in times of trouble.