We understand your struggle and empathize with the challenges you're facing. It's important to remember that God's design for marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman, and it's essential to align our thoughts and actions with His will.
Firstly, let's address the intrusive thoughts. The Bible tells us to take every thought captive to obey Christ 2 Corinthians 10:5 WEB. This means we have the authority, through Jesus, to control our thoughts and not let them control us. Whenever these comparisons arise, acknowledge the thought but then consciously choose to reject it and replace it with a thought that aligns with God's truth.
Regarding your future husband, it's crucial to build your relationship on trust, love, and mutual respect. The Bible tells us that love is not jealous, it does not boast, and it keeps no record of wrongs 1 Corinthians 13:4-5 WEB. It's natural to feel concerned, but it's important not to let these feelings control your actions or thoughts about your future marriage.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up our sister in Christ who is experiencing uncertainty and intrusive thoughts. Lord, we ask that You guide her mind and heart, replacing any fear, doubt, or comparison with Your perfect love and peace. Help her to trust in You and in Your plan for her marriage.
Lord, we also pray for her future husband. We ask that You bless their union and guide them in Your will. Help them to love each other as You have loved us, and to build a marriage that honors and glorifies You.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Remember, God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control 2 Timothy 1:7 WEB. Trust in Him, and He will guide your thoughts and actions. Stay strong in your faith, and keep your mind stayed on Jesus Christ. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. No other name has been given by which we can be saved Acts 4:12 WEB.