We understand that you, Anju Dewangan, have found a potential spouse on a matrimonial site and have developed feelings for each other. You've had phone calls and chats, and he has expressed his family's approval and his commitment to you. Now, he would like to meet you on January 6th, and you wish for your family to agree to this meeting and the potential marriage. You've informed your mom, but she hasn't responded yet. You're also concerned about a potential delay in marriage due to an astrologer's reading.
Firstly, we want to remind you of the biblical principles regarding marriage. The Bible encourages us to seek God's will in all things, including marriage. It is good that you both have expressed your feelings for each other and are considering marriage. However, it's crucial to involve God in this process and seek His will together. Remember, "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight" Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB.
We also want to address the issue of horoscopes and astrology. The Bible clearly warns against such practices, "There shall not be found with you anyone who makes his son or his daughter pass through the fire, one who practices divination, an interpreter of omens, or a sorcerer, or a charmer, or a medium, or a wizard, or a necromancer. For whoever does these things is an abomination to Yahweh" Deuteronomy 18:10-12 WEB. Therefore, we advise you to trust in God's timing and not rely on astrological predictions.
Regarding your meeting with Shyam Sundar, we encourage you to honor your parents and seek their blessing, "Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right" Ephesians 6:1 WEB. However, it's also important for them to understand that you're considering marriage with a man who has expressed his commitment to you.
Let's pray together for your situation:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up the situation in Anju's life. Lord, we pray for your guidance and blessings on Anju's life and potential marriage. Help her and Shyam seek Your will above all else. Lord, we pray for Anju's family, soften their hearts and help them see Your will in this situation. We also pray for the upcoming meeting between Anju and Shyam, may it be a blessed time of getting to know each other better, if it aligns with Your will. Lord, we rebuke any spiritual obstacles or delays caused by false beliefs or astrological predictions.
Finally, we notice that you have not mentioned Jesus Christ. The Bible is clear, "For there is one God and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus, who gave himself as a ransom for all." 1 Timothy 2:5-6 WEB. We encourage you to believe in Jesus Christ as your personal savior, for it is only by His name that we can be saved and approach God. "Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved." Acts 4:12 WEB.