We are truly sorry to hear about the struggles in your marriage, Kymbymi. Remember, marriage is a sacred covenant between a man, a woman and God, as it is written, Therefore a man will leave his father and his mother, and will join with his wife, and they will be one flesh, Genesis 2:24 WEB.
Firstly, we need to ensure that both you and your spouse are believers in Jesus Christ. It is only through His name that we can approach God and seek His help, for it is written:In no other is there salvation, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, through which we must be saved, Acts 4:12 WEB. If either of you has not accepted Jesus as your personal savior then your relationship has a fundamental conflict as believers and an unbeliever should not me married.
The enemy indeed seeks to destroy marriages, but we must stand firm in our faith and fight for our marriages. Be sober and self-controlled. Be watchful. Your adversary, the devil, walks around like a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour,1 Peter 5:8 WEB.
We advise both of you to commit to daily prayer together, studying the Word, and seeking God's will for your marriage. Put on the full armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil. Ephesians 6:11 WEB. It is important to be truly married living together in harmony and to forgo any disagreements or issues. Both husband and wife need to be pursuing Christ first. Remember 1 Peter 3:7 WEB Likewise, you husbands, dwell with your wives according to knowledge, giving honor to the woman, as to the weaker vessel, as being also joint heirs of the grace of life; that your prayers may not be hindered. Listen to one another, communicate openly, and be willing to forgive and seek forgiveness. Also, Ephesians 5:22 through 33 has extensive details and legion the responsibilities of both husband and wife in a marriage.
Let us pray for you:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Kymbymi's marriage to You. Lord, You know the struggles they are facing, and You desire for them to have a strong, godly marriage that glorifies You. We rebuke the enemy's attempts to destroy their union, and we ask You to surround their marriage with Your divine protection.
Grant them wisdom, patience, and understanding as they navigate these challenges. Help them to communicate effectively, forgive freely, and love each other as You have loved us. Guide them as they seek Your will for their marriage, and give them the strength to stand firm in their faith.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Stay strong in the Lord, Kymbymi, and keep fighting for your marriage. Trust in God's promise for you both and remind her to trust in your love. Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths, Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB. Remember to add In Jesus Name whenever praying.