Marriage

[Rororel]

There's still nothing. No hint at reconciliation, or communication. What do i do? I only have prayer, and it feels like that is failing.
I'm low, exhausted, putting on weight, while he seems to be happy and moving on.

 

[Articles]

We are truly sorry to hear about the struggles you are facing in your marriage. Remember, God's desire is for marriages to be a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman, reflecting the union between Christ and His church Ephesians 5:25. Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself up for it.

Firstly, we want to assure you that prayer is not failing you. God hears your prayers, and He cares about your situation and a similar situation is found in Isaiah 54 5 For your Maker is your husband; WEB Yahweh of Armies is his name. The Holy One of Israel is your Redeemer. He is called the God of all the earth. 6 For Yahweh has called you as a wife who is forsaken and grieved in spirit, even a wife who is married in her youth When she is cast off, A God*truly* of her sex's youth says. 7 For a small moment have I forsaken you; But I will gather you with great mercies. We understand that you may feel low and exhausted, but be encouraged by these words in Galatians 6:9 "Let us not be weary in doing good, for we will reap in due season, if we do not give up".

It is crucial to continue praying and seeking God's will for your marriage. Remember, His ways are higher than our ways, and His thoughts higher than our thoughts, and He works everything together for the good of those who love Him. In times of distress, cast all your anxieties on him, because he cares for you. He cares for the suffering that we endure and He is faithful and just concerning our sufferings.

However, we must also address that it takes two people willing to work on a marriage. While you can't control your husband's actions or feelings, you can focus on your own spiritual growth and obedience to God. Continue to be the wife God has called you to be, and trust that He is working in your husband's heart as well. Colossians 3: 18 Wives, be in subjection to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord. 19 Husbands, love your wives, and do not be bitter against them. If your husband is moving on, pray for his conviction and repentance and whatever is God's best for you and your marriage.

It is also important to address that you mentioned that prayer feels like it is failing. Prayer is our direct communication to God. It is the vehicle by which we approach Him, and it is only through Jesus Christ that we have this access. Praying to anyone but God and Jesus Christ is idolatry. It is by Jesus Christ's blood that we can go directly to God. His blood cleaned us immediately when we believed. To continue to stay cleaned by His blood we must confess our sins. 1 John 1:6-7 6 "If we say that we have fellowship with him and walk in the darkness, we lie, and don't tell the truth. 7 But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus Christ his Son and the sacrifice cleanses us from all sin. Ephesians 1:7 7 in whom we have our redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of our trespasses, according to the riches of his grace,

Lastly, take care of your physical health as well. While it is normal to go through emotional ups and downs, do not neglect caring for the temple of God. Make sure you are eating healthily and exercising in between prayers and commitments.

Let us pray for you. But also know that you need to understand the words that you say in prayer and do not give up or take a break on prayer but continuously come on bended knee.

Dear Jesus Christ, thank You for hearing our prayers. We lif before You our Sister's marriage and ask that You work a miracle in her and her husband's hearts. We thank You, Father that You have forsaken no one and that You stand in the gap for her and the marriage. We ask for Your will to be done in their lives and for Your glory to be revealed in this situation. Holy Spirit help her to come to repentance, to see or remember what would have gone wrong in her life and to point it out to her so that she finds relief or healing in that remembrance and fix it. Help our sister not to focus on what she sees ought to be the way. It is not her battle, it is God's and he will prevail. Also God please help us both to say the words that are consistent with Your words or in the mind of Christ. Bring conviction to her husband's heart, and restore their marriage if it is Your will, Father. Help her to cast all her anxieties on You and to trust in You with all her heart. Bring her comfort, peace, and strength as she waits on You. Help her to take care of her physical health as well, and guide her in all wisdom. For all the glory we give to the Father, to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit, in whose name we pray Jesus Christ. By His stripes we are healed.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, sister. We know it's tough when it feels like nothing's changing, but remember, God sees your faithfulness in prayer. In 2 Chronicles 7:14, God says, "If my people, who are called by my name, will humble themselves and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, then I will hear from heaven, and I will forgive their sin and will heal their land." Keep praying, keep seeking, and trust that God is at work, even when you can't see it.

It's easy to feel exhausted and overwhelmed, but let's not forget the power of community. Share your burden with trusted friends or family. They can pray with you and for you, and remind you of God's promises. In Galatians 6:2, we're told to "Bear one another's burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ."

And hey, let's not forget to take care of ourselves too. Sometimes, a good night's sleep, a healthy meal, or a walk in nature can do wonders for our perspective and energy. God cares about every aspect of our lives, including our physical health.

Let's claim these verses together: "Cast your cares on the Lord and he will sustain you; he will never let the righteous be shaken." (Psalm 55:22) "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest." (Matthew 11:28)

Let's pray. Dear Lord, we lift up our sister to you. We ask for your healing and restoration in her marriage. We ask for your peace and comfort to fill her heart. We ask for your conviction to work in her husband's heart. We ask all this in Jesus' name. Amen.

 

[usha rani]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[hostadmin]

We continue to feel honored that you have allowed us to pray with you regarding your marriage. We are standing in agreement with you, seeking God's guidance and intervention.

If you have seen any signs of reconciliation or communication, we would be delighted to hear about it and rejoice with you. If not, we want to assure you that prayer is never in vain. Even when it feels like nothing is happening, God is at work. Remember, His ways are higher than our ways.

We understand that this is a challenging time for you. You mentioned feeling low, exhausted, and experiencing physical changes like weight gain. We want to lift these concerns to the Lord as well. Please know that you are not alone in this.

If you feel comfortable, please share an update with us. If your request does not seem to have been answered, we want to continue joining you in prayer. Remember, God's timing is perfect. May He bless you and give you the strength and peace you need as you continue to seek Him through His son, Jesus Christ. We are praying for God to intervene in all aspects of your life and we are petitioning Him to work in your marriage. We are praying in Jesus Name.