We are truly saddened to hear about the separation you're experiencing in your marriage, Rororel. Let us stand with you in prayer and speak the truth in love, based on the principles laid out in God's Word.
Firstly, let's acknowledge that God's heart is for marriage to be a lifelong commitment. As it is written, "Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate." (Mark 10:9 WEB)
However, we must also address the sin that has entered into this situation. The Bible is clear that sexual immorality is a grave sin against God and our own bodies. "Flee sexual immorality! 'Every sin that a man does is outside the body,' but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body." (1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB) Your husband's actions are not only harmful to your marriage but also to his own spiritual well-being.
We encourage you to continue praying for your husband, but also to seek God's will in this situation. Pray that God would convict your husband's heart and turn it back toward you and toward righteousness. Remember the power of prayer and forgiveness, as Jesus taught us, "For if you forgive others their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you; but if you do not forgive others their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses." (Matthew 6:14-15 WEB)
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Rororel and her husband to You. Lord, we know that You desire for marriages to be a reflection of Your unfailing love and commitment. We ask that You would work a miracle in this situation. Turn their hearts back towards each other, and more importantly, turn their hearts towards You.
Convict Rororel's husband of the sin in his life, and grant him the strength and humility to repent and turn away from it. Restore communication and understanding between them, and guide them on the path to reconciliation and healing.
In the meantime, Father, grant Rororel the peace that passes all understanding. Comfort her in her desperation, and remind her of Your unfailing love for her. Help her to forgive, just as You have forgiven us all.
We ask all these things in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Lastly, Rororel, we encourage you to surround yourself with a supportive Christian community during this time. Seek godly counsel and wisdom from those who can help bear your burdens and hold you accountable to God's truth. Trust in the Lord, and lean not on your own understanding. (Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB)