Ruffvan, we join you in prayer to our loving and sovereign God, seeking His will for your life and the desire of your heart. We are reminded of the beautiful union of marriage as it is described in the Scriptures, "Therefore a man will leave his father and his mother, and will join with his wife, and they will be one flesh." (Genesis 2:24, WEB).
Firstly, we want to commend you for seeking God's blessings in your future marriage and for desiring to be a loving, good, and faithful husband and caring father. These are godly aspirations that align with biblical principles. We pray that the Lord will indeed bless you with a wife who is equally yoked with you in faith and love (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB).
However, we must also address the concern you raised about the timing of this union. While it is natural to desire God's perfect timing, we must also be patient and trust in His plan. Remember, "Wait for the LORD. Be strong, and let your heart be courageous. Yes, wait for the LORD." (Psalm 27:14, WEB). God's timing is always perfect, and rushing His plans may lead us away from His best for us.
We also want to ensure that you are seeking God's will above your own desires. It is crucial to spend time in prayer and in God's Word, seeking His face and asking for His guidance in this relationship. If this lady is indeed God's will for your life, trust that He will make a way in His perfect time.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up ###'s desires and concerns. Lord, we ask that You bless him with a godly wife, one who loves You and seeks to serve You. Make him a loving, good, and faithful husband and caring father, a man after Your own heart. Lord, we trust in Your perfect timing and plans. If it is Your will for ### to marry this lady, we ask that You perfect it in Your time. Help him to be patient, to trust in You, and to seek Your will above all else. We ask all these things in the precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
May the Lord guide your steps, ###, and may His peace rule in your heart as you trust in Him.