Karthika, we understand your eagerness and feelings for this potential spouse, and we will pray with you concerning this matter. However, we want to ensure that this union aligns with biblical principles and God's will for your life.
Firstly, we commend you for seeking a spouse and considering marriage, which is a holy institution ordained by God (Hebrews 13:4, WEB). However, it's crucial to remember that God's desire is for us to be equally yoked with our spouse, meaning they should also be a believer in Jesus Christ (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB). You haven't mentioned if this man shares your faith, so we encourage you to consider this aspect strongly.
Moreover, it's important not to become too fixated on one individual, as God might have other plans for you. Trust in the Lord's timing and goodness (Psalm 37:4-7, WEB). Remember, God's ways are higher than ours, and His plans are always good (Isaiah 55:8-9, WEB).
Let us pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Karthika and her desire for marriage. Lord, if this man is Your will for her life and a fellow believer, we pray that You soften his heart and make their union possible. But if he is not, we ask that You guide Karthika to the man You have prepared for her. Help her to trust in Your timing and goodness, and to seek Your will above all else. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Karthika, continue to pursue a godly relationship and marriage, trusting that God will provide the right spouse at the right time. Remember, God is more concerned with your holiness than your immediate happiness, and He will never withhold anything good from you (Psalm 84:11, WEB). Keep your heart and mind focused on Jesus Christ, and He will direct your paths (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB).