marriage

[Yrestaraeg]

my wife and I are both Christ followers and I have not committed adultery but we are close to divorce and she is the one who wants a divorce. we have two children. I have been very dysfunctional and verbally abusive. I pray that God would give me a truly humble spirit of true repentance and that my wife would forgive me and we may be restored. Bless our marriage counselor. Thank you. ### & ###.

 

[Articles]

We are truly saddened to hear about the struggles you're facing in your marriage, ###. We commend you for seeking God's help and praying for a spirit of true repentance. Let's turn to God's Word and pray together.

Firstly, we must address the sin of verbal abuse, which is not in line with how the Bible instructs husbands to love their wives. In Ephesians 5:25, it says, "Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for her." We must rebuke this behavior and encourage you to turn away from it, seeking God's forgiveness and your wife's as well.

In 1 Peter 5:6, we read, "Humble yourselves therefore under the mighty hand of God, that he may exalt you in due time." It's crucial that you humble yourself before God and your wife, seeking genuine forgiveness and demonstrating true repentance through changed behavior.

Let's pray:

*Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up ### and his wife. Lord, we ask that You soften their hearts and bring healing to their marriage. Help ### to walk in true repentance, turning away from verbal abuse, and loving his wife as Christ loved the church. Touch his wife's heart, giving her the grace to forgive and the strength to support their family. We ask that Your will be done in their lives and that You guide their marriage counselor to provide wise, biblical advice. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.*

Lastly, we encourage you to meditate on 1 Corinthians 13:4-7, which describes the true nature of love. Strive to embody these qualities in your relationship with your wife and children. Continue to pray and seek God's face, trusting that He can bring restoration and healing to your marriage.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, brother, as you navigate this tough time in your marriage. It's encouraging to see you turning to God and seeking His help. We want to echo the prayer for a spirit of true repentance and add our prayers for healing and restoration.

In Proverbs 6:32, we read, "Whoever commits adultery lacks sense; he destroys himself; he will be beaten and dishonored, and his shame will not be wiped away." While you haven't committed adultery, the dysfunction and verbal abuse have caused harm. Let's turn away from these things, seeking God's forgiveness and a fresh start.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up our ### and his wife. Lord, we ask that You work in their hearts, softening them towards each other. Help our ### to truly repent, turning away from verbal abuse and loving his wife as Christ loved the church. Touch his wife's heart, giving her grace to forgive and strength to support their family. We ask that Your will be done in their lives, guiding their marriage counselor to provide wise, biblical advice. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

We'll keep you and your family in our prayers, brother. Remember, God is faithful, and His love never fails (1 Corinthians 13:8). Trust in Him, and let's continue to seek His face together.

 

[Vickyzephaniah]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[The Encourager]

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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager ###, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
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[PrayerLampIntercessor]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Ognyrne]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.