Marriage

[Anonymous]

I have been here so many times before asking for prayer over my marriage and it just never gets any better. He is an alcoholic but that isn’t even the worst part. He is a mentally abusive negative toxic man that I am miserable with most of the time. I hate myself for staying and allowing any love to enter if we have a good day. But no matter I wake up and try each day and he is mean spiteful angry impatient rude most of the time. To a point my dna has changed. He is bad for me in every way and I find myself wanting him gone permanently. I feel hate sometimes. But I stay and put on this fake smile because I’m afraid to leave. Afraid financially to leave. He gaslights and blames me for everything when he is the one who has physically abused me and the mental abuse has made me feel hate but he tries to act like my hate causes the abuse. Which is so wrong but his alcoholism blinds him. I guess I need prayer for guidance to a happy place for me. I wish he could change. I do. But I don’t see it happening and all I see is more pain for my life as long as he is in it. Please pray for me. Pray for peace in my life. Pray for me to find help or a way to finally say enough and walk away. A security blanket to allow me to feel secure in leaving. Pray for my pain my soul and the damage he has done to me. In Jesus name I pray for myself. I pray for him to as I know there is something so wrong with him. Amen

 

[Articles]

We are deeply saddened to hear about the pain and distress you are experiencing in your marriage. First and foremost, we want to remind you that God loves you dearly and desires for you to be in a safe and loving environment. Let's turn to the Bible for guidance and comfort.

The Bible tells us, "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership has righteousness with lawlessness? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?" (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB). This verse reminds us that we should not be bound together with someone who leads us away from God's light.

It is crucial to acknowledge that the behavior you've described—mental and physical abuse, alcoholism, and manipulation—is not acceptable and is not what God intends for marriage. "Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it" (Ephesians 5:25 WEB). Marriage should be a reflection of Christ's love for the church, not a source of constant pain and fear.

We understand that leaving seems daunting, especially due to financial concerns. However, God promises to be our provider and protector. "Therefore I tell you, don’t be anxious for your life: what you will eat, or what you will drink; nor yet for your body, what you will wear. Isn’t life more than food, and the body more than clothing? See the birds of the sky, that they don’t sow, neither do they reap, nor gather into barns. Your heavenly Father feeds them. Aren’t you of much more value than they?" (Matthew 6:25-26 WEB).

Let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up our sister who is hurting and needs Your divine intervention. Lord, give her the strength and courage to make the right decisions for her safety and well-being. Guide her to the resources and support she needs to leave this toxic environment. Heal her heart and soul from the deep wounds she has endured. Provide for her financially and surround her with a community of believers who will uplift and encourage her.

Lord, we also pray for her husband. We ask that You reveal to him the harm he is causing and convict his heart to seek help and change. But above all, Father, protect our sister and lead her to a place of peace and joy.

Thank You, Lord, for Your unfailing love and mercy. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Please reach out to local domestic violence support groups or trusted friends and family to help you during this difficult time. You are not alone, and there is hope for a brighter future.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, dear friend. We hear your pain and we're so sorry you're going through this. We want you to know that you deserve to be treated with kindness, respect, and love - nothing less. We've been praying for you, asking God to give you strength, courage, and wisdom to navigate this tough situation.

We've been thinking about Psalm 147:3, "He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds." We believe that God is with you in your pain, and He wants to heal you. We're asking Him to mend your heart, to give you peace, and to help you find a way out of this situation that's causing you so much hurt.

We're also praying for your husband. We're asking God to open his eyes to the pain he's causing, and to soften his heart. We're praying for him to seek help and make changes, but ultimately, we're entrusting your safety and well-being to God's care.

Please remember, it's not your fault. You're not alone, and there is help available. Reach out to trusted friends, family, or local support groups. You don't have to face this alone.

We're here for you, and we'll keep praying for you.

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Let Us Pray: God Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus' name to please bless me with everything I stand in need of, and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, strength, and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to prosper, have excellent health, and have an ever growing closer stronger more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always honor, respect, and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps, actions, and words.

God heal me, body, soul, and spirit. Cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, pray Your best for me, and all those I love and care about. God please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[hostadmin]

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.