Marriage/Worry

[Quaffone]

Pray that I will sleep better, have peace, that my spouse won't be so clingy, especially if I see my lady friends twice a week sometimes.

 

[Articles]

Quaffone, we understand that you're facing challenges in your marriage and feeling worried. Let's first, address the fact you called your spouse clingy and did not use the name of Jesus in your request.

Firstly, let's look at your spouse's concern. The Bible encourages all Christian believers to be married to Christian believers that also believe marriage is a commitment between a man and a woman. Should your spouse be concerned you are seeing a woman that is not her twice a week or possibly at all? Is there anything you need to repent for and correct? Remember, the Bible says in Ephesus 5:25. Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself up for her. And, in Proverbs 4:23, "Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it is the wellspring of life."

Quaffone, the answers you need for assurance, peace, and reconciliation in your marriage can only come from the LORD through Jesus Christ. This problem gives you and her an opportunity to seek the LORD for direction and work both of you closer to Him and to each other as you pray about it. And Jesus' words about praying with other believers, Mathew 18:19 says, "Again, I tell you that if two of you on earth agree about anything you ask for, it will be done for you by my Father in heaven."

When it comes to worry and peace, Jesus himself said in John 14:27. "Peace I leave with you. My peace I give to you; not as the world gives, I give to you." The problem comes if you do not know Jesus personally and so you can not accept and trust in His word and promises in your heart.

The anger comes again when it is not God's plan for us to worry, but to come to Him, through Jesus Christ, boldly praying and asking anything we want according to God's will for us. Yes, worrying only leads to mental and physical health issues, not the answers we are looking for.

So for your spouse feeling clingy and insecure when you go out with other women, both of you can pray together about this. Both of your hearts being knitted together, and your wife trusting your judgment as you put your wife first in your life and honor her.

Finally, Let us pray together with you,
Thank you Father for Quaffone who has come to us today seeking help with their marriage and assurance as they meet with other lady friends. Father in heaven, we trust that Quaffone and his spouse will both be blessed as they seek you both together and individually. We pray that Quaffone's spouse can have confidence that her spouse is being honest and direct with the ladies he is seeing. We are praying that his spouse has the assurance that her husband loves her and that she loves him. We pray that they will both seek God together and receive His promises and the love He has for each of them.

Father we pray this in Jesus' name, Amen.

Bible verses:
Proverbs 3:5-6, "Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and don't lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."
Philippians 4:6-7, "Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, surpasses all understanding guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus."

Quaffone please look deep into your life, the things that might be causing your spouse to feel insecure, the things you need to pray together about, and the things you need to seek the LORD about. Your wife needs to know that you love her just as Jesus loves the church. You need to do your best to assure your spouse that your love for her comes first, and you will never let anything damage your marriage to her. Both of you need to turn all your problems and marriage over to Jesus so that He can protect you and guide you.

May you, your wife, and your marriage be blessed as you all seek to become closer to the LORD, Jesus Christ, His will for your life and marriage, and each other.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, Quaffone, as you navigate this worry in your marriage. It's natural to feel concerned when your spouse is uncomfortable with your interactions with others, especially when it involves the opposite sex. Let's remember, as it says in 1 Corinthians 7:5, "Do not deprive each other except perhaps by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer." Open communication and mutual respect are key here.

We understand that sleep and peace might be elusive right now, but remember, in Matthew 11:28-29, Jesus says, "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls." Trust in Him, and He will provide the peace you're seeking.

Let's pray together for your marriage. Father, we come to you today on behalf of Quaffone and their spouse. We ask for Your wisdom and guidance in their marriage. Help them to communicate openly and honestly, with love and respect for each other. We pray for peace in their home, that they would rest in Your care. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[Glogaria]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[hostadmin]

We continue to lift you up in prayer, dear friend. Thank you for sharing your concerns with us and for allowing us to stand in agreement with you before the Lord. We have been praying for your peace and rest, and for God to work in your marriage. If you have seen improvements in your sleep and peace, or if God has begun to work in your spouse's heart about your friendships, we would love for you to share a praise report with us all. If you are still struggling with these issues, please don't hesitate to post your request again. We are here to continue praying with you and for you. May God bless you richly as you continue to seek Him through Jesus Christ. We pray that God will give you the peace that surpasses all understanding and will guide you both as you navigate your marriage. We ask that God will work in your spouse's heart and help you both to find a balance in your friendships that honors both of you and Him. In Jesus Name.