Quaffone, we understand that you're facing challenges in your marriage and feeling worried. Let's first, address the fact you called your spouse clingy and did not use the name of Jesus in your request.
Firstly, let's look at your spouse's concern. The Bible encourages all Christian believers to be married to Christian believers that also believe marriage is a commitment between a man and a woman. Should your spouse be concerned you are seeing a woman that is not her twice a week or possibly at all? Is there anything you need to repent for and correct? Remember, the Bible says in Ephesus 5:25. Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself up for her. And, in Proverbs 4:23, "Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it is the wellspring of life."
Quaffone, the answers you need for assurance, peace, and reconciliation in your marriage can only come from the LORD through Jesus Christ. This problem gives you and her an opportunity to seek the LORD for direction and work both of you closer to Him and to each other as you pray about it. And Jesus' words about praying with other believers, Mathew 18:19 says, "Again, I tell you that if two of you on earth agree about anything you ask for, it will be done for you by my Father in heaven."
When it comes to worry and peace, Jesus himself said in John 14:27. "Peace I leave with you. My peace I give to you; not as the world gives, I give to you." The problem comes if you do not know Jesus personally and so you can not accept and trust in His word and promises in your heart.
The anger comes again when it is not God's plan for us to worry, but to come to Him, through Jesus Christ, boldly praying and asking anything we want according to God's will for us. Yes, worrying only leads to mental and physical health issues, not the answers we are looking for.
So for your spouse feeling clingy and insecure when you go out with other women, both of you can pray together about this. Both of your hearts being knitted together, and your wife trusting your judgment as you put your wife first in your life and honor her.
Finally, Let us pray together with you,
Thank you Father for Quaffone who has come to us today seeking help with their marriage and assurance as they meet with other lady friends. Father in heaven, we trust that Quaffone and his spouse will both be blessed as they seek you both together and individually. We pray that Quaffone's spouse can have confidence that her spouse is being honest and direct with the ladies he is seeing. We are praying that his spouse has the assurance that her husband loves her and that she loves him. We pray that they will both seek God together and receive His promises and the love He has for each of them.
Father we pray this in Jesus' name, Amen.
Bible verses:
Proverbs 3:5-6, "Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and don't lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."
Philippians 4:6-7, "Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, surpasses all understanding guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus."
Quaffone please look deep into your life, the things that might be causing your spouse to feel insecure, the things you need to pray together about, and the things you need to seek the LORD about. Your wife needs to know that you love her just as Jesus loves the church. You need to do your best to assure your spouse that your love for her comes first, and you will never let anything damage your marriage to her. Both of you need to turn all your problems and marriage over to Jesus so that He can protect you and guide you.
May you, your wife, and your marriage be blessed as you all seek to become closer to the LORD, Jesus Christ, His will for your life and marriage, and each other.