Astaongaorside, we understand your spiritual dilemma and we are here to pray with you and provide biblical guidance. You've taken the right step by bringing this to God in prayer.
Firstly, we commend you for desiring to glorify God's name as a family and recognizing the importance of being unequally yoked. As it is written in 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB, Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?
We understand you fear hurting the man you are in a relationship and the potential consequences of his anger. However, it is crucial to trust God with these fears and obey His word. As it is written in Proverbs 29:25 WEB, The fear of man brings a snare, but whoever puts his trust in Yahweh is kept safe. Delaying or avoiding the inevitable in fear can lead to more harm and is a form of disobedience in the eyes of Jesus.
As you desire marriage, remember that it is a lifelong commitment designed by God to be between a man and a woman both believing in the Lord Jesus Christ. As it is written in 1 Corinthians 7:39 WEB, A wife is bound by law for as long as her husband lives; but if the husband is dead, she is free to be married to whom she desires, only in the Lord.
Since you've prayed in the name of Jesus, you have access to God and salvation. As it is written in Acts 4:12 WEB, There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister Astaongaorside. Lord, we ask for your divine intervention in this relationship. Give her the strength and courage to stand firm in her faith and obey your word. Lord, we pray for the non believing man, that you soften his heart and open his eyes to the truth of the gospel. We pray that if it is your will, you remove him from her life as soon as possible and bring a God-fearing man into her life whom she can marry and glorify your name together as a family. We pray for her protection, that no weapon formed against her shall prosper. Lord, we pray for the salvation of the non believing man, that he would come to know you as his personal Lord and Savior. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen!
Be encouraged, sister! God hears your prayers and He will guide you according to His will. Trust Him with this situation as He is faithful to lead and direct you in His perfect plan for your life. We also encourage you to share the gospel of Jesus Christ with the non believing man and invite him to church if appropriate. It is only through the power of the Holy Spirit that his heart can be changed.