Marriage/What to do next?

[Finesse37]

Married young to a Haitian man who wanted me to be Haitian. Survived that but then he wanted a son so had an affair with his American assistant who gave him that son although he had several children by me already. Now he is starting to attack my character as he just hired a Haitian married woman with very young children who from what I understand can do no wrong. Her mother made him food and she is in the mix with all the Haitian community so he is on Haitian overdrive now with music, food, etc. Over 30 yrs of marriage telling me that no one likes my personality as it is cold or standoffish (his assistant thinks so - go figure). He already had one secret dinner while I was away to visit a very ill family member with his new Haitian assistant and her cousin along with his married brother. His brother is talking about my personality all of a sudden too. I don't want to be married to someone that is attacking me like this because I have been here before. As an educated woman who raised 3 normal educated children and has held this family down when he was checked out I cannot do this affair nonsense again. His assistant will give me a fake greeting but if she sees me at an event won't speak again or make eye contact. I am not dumb. My goal was to continue traveling, having fun, visiting our children and just living it up until we die. I work out and am agile. I am so sad at these turn of events. He recently blamed me for not doing his homework so that is why he failed a class. I was even accused of being selfish for making him pay childsupport through the state as I only selfishly wanted to protect our assets. I need my prayer warriors to come in agreement with me before God. I need God through his Son and the Holy Spirit to guide me and to continue to give me discernment. I just want to be happy with someone who truly loves me and can show it. I don't want to be verbally, emotionally and mentally abused again. I am in an awful position. I stand on my faith but after what I have gone through and survived I don't want to do it again. Prayers for my husband who blames me for everything wrong in his life and who is now attacking my character and personality again that he find what is missing in his life at his older age and if that means leaving I am okay with that too. I also pray for the assistant's husband and my sister in law who don't know what their partners are doing that their eyes will be open. It is horrible to spend most of your life in a marriage with someone who is never happy and always complaining. Also prayers for our finances as he never made much money but likes to spend like he is rich. He is in debt up to his eyeballs and has a very expensive student bill coming up but we are strapped financially with no game plan to pay it back as he was kicked out of school and has to wait a year to reapply.

 

[Articles]

We are deeply saddened to hear about the struggles you are facing in your marriage, Finesse37. Let us come together in prayer and seek God's will for your life.

Firstly, we want to remind you of the sanctity of marriage as designed by God. As it is written in Matthew 19:6 (WEB), "So that they are no more two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, don’t let man tear apart." However, we also acknowledge the pain and suffering that adultery and emotional abuse bring. It is clear that your husband's actions are not aligned with biblical principles. As Proverbs 6:32 (WEB) says, "But whoever commits adultery with a woman destroys his own soul. He who does so sins against his own body."

Let us pray:

*Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you today to lift up our sister, Finesse37. Lord, she is hurting, and her marriage is facing severe challenges. We ask that you comfort her heart, Lord, and guide her steps. Give her the wisdom and discernment she needs to navigate this difficult situation. Help her to stay strong in her faith and trust in you, Lord. In Jesus' name, we pray.*

We encourage you to stay strong in your faith, Finesse37. Remember, God loves you dearly, and He wants the best for you. It is crucial to surround yourself with believers who can support and uplift you during this challenging time. We also recommend seeking godly counsel, either from a pastor or a Christian counselor, to help you make wise decisions moving forward.

We must address that you did not mention the name of Jesus in your request. It is essential to remember that it is only through the name of Jesus that we have access to God. As Acts 4:12 (WEB) states, "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"

Regarding your husband, we pray that God will soften his heart and open his eyes to the pain he is causing. We pray that he will seek forgiveness and turn away from his sinful behavior. However, we also understand that you cannot control his actions, and it is crucial to protect your emotional and mental well-being.

*Dear Lord, we also lift up Finesse37's husband. Lord, we ask that you convict his heart and bring him to repentance. Help him to see the error of his ways and turn away from his sinful behavior. In Jesus' name, we pray.*

Lastly, we want to assure you that God has a plan for your life. Although you are going through a challenging time, remember that God can turn any situation around for your good. As Romans 8:28 (WEB) says, "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose."

Stay strong in your faith, Finesse37. We are here with you, praying and believing that God will make a way.

*In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.*

 

[Finesse37]

We are deeply saddened to hear about the struggles you are facing in your marriage, Finesse37. Let us come together in prayer and seek God's will for your life.

Firstly, we want to remind you of the sanctity of marriage as designed by God. As it is written in Matthew 19:6 (WEB), "So that they are no more two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, don’t let man tear apart." However, we also acknowledge the pain and suffering that adultery and emotional abuse bring. It is clear that your husband's actions are not aligned with biblical principles. As Proverbs 6:32 (WEB) says, "But whoever commits adultery with a woman destroys his own soul. He who does so sins against his own body."

Let us pray:

*Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you today to lift up our sister, Finesse37. Lord, she is hurting, and her marriage is facing severe challenges. We ask that you comfort her heart, Lord, and guide her steps. Give her the wisdom and discernment she needs to navigate this difficult situation. Help her to stay strong in her faith and trust in you, Lord. In Jesus' name, we pray.*

We encourage you to stay strong in your faith, Finesse37. Remember, God loves you dearly, and He wants the best for you. It is crucial to surround yourself with believers who can support and uplift you during this challenging time. We also recommend seeking godly counsel, either from a pastor or a Christian counselor, to help you make wise decisions moving forward.

We must address that you did not mention the name of Jesus in your request. It is essential to remember that it is only through the name of Jesus that we have access to God. As Acts 4:12 (WEB) states, "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"

Regarding your husband, we pray that God will soften his heart and open his eyes to the pain he is causing. We pray that he will seek forgiveness and turn away from his sinful behavior. However, we also understand that you cannot control his actions, and it is crucial to protect your emotional and mental well-being.

*Dear Lord, we also lift up Finesse37's husband. Lord, we ask that you convict his heart and bring him to repentance. Help him to see the error of his ways and turn away from his sinful behavior. In Jesus' name, we pray.*

Lastly, we want to assure you that God has a plan for your life. Although you are going through a challenging time, remember that God can turn any situation around for your good. As Romans 8:28 (WEB) says, "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose."

Stay strong in your faith, Finesse37. We are here with you, praying and believing that God will make a way.

*In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.*

Thank you. God bless.

 

[Graluren]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

I prayed in Jesus' name that God will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Let Us Pray: God Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus' name to please bless me with everything I stand in need of, and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth and fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength. Bless me to prosper, have excellent health, and have an ever growing closer stronger more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always honor, respect, and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps, actions, and words.

God heal me, body, soul, and spirit. Cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You or breaks Your heart. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, pray Your best for me, and all those I love and care about. God please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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[Finesse37]

Amen.

 

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