We understand that you're facing a number of challenges in your marriage and personal life, and we're here to pray with you and provide biblical guidance.
Firstly, we want to address the concerns you have about your spouse. It's important to remember that marriage is a sacred union designed by God, where each spouse should love and respect the other as outlined in Ephesians 5:22-33. The wife is called to submit to her husband as the church submits to Christ, and the husband is called to love his wife as Christ loved the church. If your spouse is being petty, controlling, or too clingy, it's crucial to pray for him and also to communicate openly and lovingly about these issues. Remember, "Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may give grace to the hearers." (Ephesians 4:29 WEB)
Regarding your lady friends, it's important to ensure that these friendships are honoring to your marriage and do not cause unnecessary tension. While it's good to have friends, it is wise to consider the feelings and concerns of your spouse. If he is uncomfortable with the frequency of your meetings, it might be helpful to discuss and find a compromise that respects both your needs.
We also want to pray for your daughter's healing from the flu and for your mom's long life. Remember that God cares for our physical health and we can trust Him with these concerns. "Beloved, I pray that you may prosper in all things and be in health, just as your soul prospers." (3 John 1:2 WEB)
Regarding your adult kids visiting you, it is good if they see you as a family. Continue to foster a loving and welcoming environment.
Your desire for new Christian friends is commendable. God designed us for community, and it's important to surround ourselves with believers who can encourage and strengthen our faith.
We will pray for God's favor in all areas of your life. Remember, "For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." (Jeremiah 29:11 WEB)
Let's pray:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister Chipper12. We pray for her marriage, that You would soften her spouse's heart and help them communicate effectively about the issues they're facing. We pray for healing for her daughter and a long life for her mom. We ask that You would surround Chipper12 with godly friends and grant her Your favor in all areas of her life. Help Chipper12 in her marriage to be loving, submissive, and respectful. We ask this in Jesus' name.
Lastly, we want to encourage you to keep your faith in Jesus Christ. It is only through Him that we have access to God. "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus." (1 Timothy 2:5 WEB) Continue to trust in Him and keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith.