Marriage/Spouse gives me a hard time

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Chipper12

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Pray that my spouse won't give me a hard time over petty things, all upset tonight because I went to church when he had a bad cold, spent most of the day with him, and tonight when I got home from work he's all out of wack just because of that. I fell on ice three times last week and he never asked how my back was. He cancelled our valentines dinner just becuase of this. it's absolutely terrible! I told him I'm not going down south with him. He said he gives up. I can't take his episodes anymore. He get's angry watching tv, puts people down, swears, and on and on. Rather than just be grateful and happy. I need prayer in Jesus name.
 
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Let's bring your concerns to the Lord in prayer, ###. We understand that you're going through a challenging time in your marriage, and it's important to approach this situation with godly wisdom and love.

Firstly, we commend you for prioritizing your faith and attending church, even when your spouse had a cold. God calls us to fellowship and worship, and your commitment is admirable. However, let's pray for unity and understanding in your marriage, as God's word tells us, Be kindly affectionate one to another with brotherly love; in honor preferring one another. (Romans 12:10 WEB)

Let's pray:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister ### and her marriage. Lord, You know the struggles they are facing, and we ask for Your divine intervention. Please help her spouse to understand her commitment to You and honor it. Help them to communicate effectively and to be patient and kind to one another, as You have called us to be.

Father, we also pray for healing in their relationship. We rebuke the spirit of anger, bitterness, and unkindness that may be causing strife. Lord, Your word tells us, Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander, be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ's sake has forgiven you. (Ephesians 4:31-32 WEB)

We pray for ###'s spouse, that You would soften his heart and help him to see the pain he is causing. Lord, we ask that You would help him to control his anger and to be a godly husband, loving his wife as Christ loved the church. (Ephesians 5:25 WEB)

Finally, Father, we pray for ###. We ask that You would give her the strength and wisdom to navigate this situation. Help her to be a godly wife, respecting and loving her husband, even in these difficult times. Lord, guide her steps and give her peace.

We ask all these things in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord, and Savior. Amen.

Lastly, we encourage you, ###, to continue praying for your spouse and your marriage. Remember that God can turn any situation around for His glory. Keep your heart open to Him and seek His will in all things. Trust the Lord to heal and guide your marriage. If you ever feel unsafe, please reach out to local authorities or trusted church members. Consider counseling from a Christian professional to help your marriage. Please know that we are praying for you and your spouse. Trust God and His plan.

Psalms 147:3 says He heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds. Turn to God in this time of trouble.
 
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We're here with you, ###. It's tough when the person you love seems to be hurt by the very things that matter to you, like your faith and your commitment to each other. We understand your frustration and hurt. Let's lift this up together in prayer.

Dear Lord Jesus,

We come to You today, carrying our sister ###'s heartache. Lord, You see the strain in her marriage, the hurt she feels, and the anger that's been building up. We ask for Your healing touch on their relationship. Help her spouse to understand the depth of her love and commitment, and to appreciate the time she spends with him, even when he's not feeling his best.

Lord, we pray for a softening of his heart. Help him to see the pain he's causing and to control his anger. We ask that You would help him to be the godly husband You've called him to be, loving ### as You love the Church. Give him a heart of understanding and patience.

###, we pray for you too. Give her the strength to navigate this challenging time. Help her to keep her heart open to You and to trust in Your plan. Remind her of Your unfailing love and faithfulness, even in the midst of this storm.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Keep holding on, ###. God sees your heart and your efforts. Trust in Him, and remember, "Cast your cares on the Lord and he will sustain you; he will never let the righteous be shaken." (Psalm 55:22, NIV)
 
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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so.
Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
 
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Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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We continue to lift you and your marriage up in prayer, dear sister. Thank you for sharing your burden with us and allowing us to stand in the gap for you. We have been interceding for you and your spouse, asking God to soften his heart and open his eyes to your love and dedication.

If you have seen improvements in his behavior or your marriage, we would be delighted to hear your praise report. Your testimony could be an encouragement to others who are going through similar situations. If the situation has not changed or seems hopeless, please do not hesitate to share an update. We want to continue praying for you and your spouse, we will not give up trusting GOD for a miracle in your marriage. We will ask GOD to give you strength and wisdom needed until then.

We are praying for your spouse's cold to heal that will help alleviate the symptoms that might be causing him to feel on edge. In addition, we are praying for his heart to soften, for him to appreciate the love and support you're providing as a wife, and know your value. We pray that God helps you both see eye to eye in Jesus Name.

As we pray for your marriage, you are loved and we stand with you in this trial.

We are also praying for continued strength for you as you face these trials. Trust God on the promise in Romans 8:28 that He will work all things out for our good. In Jesus Name.
 
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