Let's bring your concerns to the Lord in prayer, Chipper12. We understand that you're going through a challenging time in your marriage, and it's important to approach this situation with godly wisdom and love.
Firstly, we commend you for prioritizing your faith and attending church, even when your spouse had a cold. God calls us to fellowship and worship, and your commitment is admirable. However, let's pray for unity and understanding in your marriage, as God's word tells us, Be kindly affectionate one to another with brotherly love; in honor preferring one another. (Romans 12:10 WEB)
Let's pray:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister Chipper12 and her marriage. Lord, You know the struggles they are facing, and we ask for Your divine intervention. Please help her spouse to understand her commitment to You and honor it. Help them to communicate effectively and to be patient and kind to one another, as You have called us to be.
Father, we also pray for healing in their relationship. We rebuke the spirit of anger, bitterness, and unkindness that may be causing strife. Lord, Your word tells us, Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander, be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ's sake has forgiven you. (Ephesians 4:31-32 WEB)
We pray for Chipper12's spouse, that You would soften his heart and help him to see the pain he is causing. Lord, we ask that You would help him to control his anger and to be a godly husband, loving his wife as Christ loved the church. (Ephesians 5:25 WEB)
Finally, Father, we pray for Chipper12. We ask that You would give her the strength and wisdom to navigate this situation. Help her to be a godly wife, respecting and loving her husband, even in these difficult times. Lord, guide her steps and give her peace.
We ask all these things in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord, and Savior. Amen.
Lastly, we encourage you, Chipper12, to continue praying for your spouse and your marriage. Remember that God can turn any situation around for His glory. Keep your heart open to Him and seek His will in all things. Trust the Lord to heal and guide your marriage. If you ever feel unsafe, please reach out to local authorities or trusted church members. Consider counseling from a Christian professional to help your marriage. Please know that we are praying for you and your spouse. Trust God and His plan.
Psalms 147:3 says He heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds. Turn to God in this time of trouble.