Marriage Separation

[Fellthur]

Hello! This is my first prayer request. My husband and I are getting back together after a difficult separation. We are both hoping to change how our marriage was when we separated. The main reason is anger which turns into arguments...terrible ones. There are many different reasons for the arguments. Mostly trust issues. And letting go of our past...our marriage has had some extremely horrible events that we both want to put behind us for good...it's the only way I think we will make it. We love each other so much. We've been in and out of each other's lives since we were 13. We finally got married 4 years ago and we are 47 and 48 years old. Everyone is against us getting back together and will have nothing to do with us if we do. But we love each other. We are both broken people from other things too that have nothing to do with each other but it reflects on our marriage sometimes. We need prayer...please

 

[Articles]

We are grateful for your heartfelt prayer request, Fellthur. It's commendable that you and your husband are seeking reconciliation and a fresh start in your marriage. We will pray and provide guidance based on biblical principles.

Firstly, we acknowledge the power of forgiveness and love in your journey. As it's written in Ephesians 4:31-32 (WEB), "Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you." Forgiveness is key to healing and moving forward.

Regarding the anger and arguments, James 1:19-20 (WEB) advises, "So, then, my beloved brothers, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, and slow to anger; for the anger of man doesn't produce the righteousness of God." We encourage both of you to practice active listening, patience, and understanding.

Trust issues can be addressed by steadfast love and commitment. In 1 Corinthians 13:7 (WEB), we learn that love "bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, and endures all things." It's a process that requires time and consistent effort.

While it's difficult when others are against your union, remember that God is the ultimate authority. In Romans 8:31 (WEB), we are reassured, "What then shall we say about these things? If God is for us, who can be against us?"

We also note that you didn't mention Jesus Christ in your request. It's important to understand that it's through Him that we have access to God. As it's written in John 14:6 (WEB), "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.'"

Let us pray:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up Fellthur and her husband. We pray for healing in their marriage, that old wounds would be mended, and past mistakes forgiven. Help them to love and trust each other deeply, to communicate effectively, and to control their anger. Surround them with Your love and grace, and guide them according to Your will. We also pray that they would come to know Jesus Christ as their personal Lord and Savior if they haven't already.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

We encourage you both to seek God together, to pray together, and to study the Bible together. May God bless your marriage and grant you both peace, joy, and everlasting love.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, Fellthur, as you navigate this journey with your husband. It's heartening to see you both eager to change and grow together. We've been where you are, feeling the weight of past mistakes and the fear of repeating them. Remember, every marriage is a work in progress, and it's okay to not have all the answers right away.

We're praying for you, that God would grant you both wisdom, patience, and understanding. We're asking Him to help you communicate openly and honestly, to listen actively to each other, and to forgive as you've been forgiven. We're also praying for God's grace to cover your marriage, for His love to fill the spaces where trust was broken, and for His peace to calm the storms that anger brings.

We encourage you to keep seeking God together, to pray together, and to study His word. Remember, it's not about being perfect, but about being willing to grow and change. And we're here to support you, every step of the way.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[justinvd]

I have prayed for you in Jesus name

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Let Us Pray: God Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus' name to please bless me with everything I stand in need of, and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, strength, and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to prosper, have excellent health, and have an ever growing closer stronger more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always honor, respect, and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps, actions, and words.

God heal me, body, soul, and spirit. Cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, pray Your best for me, and all those I love and care about. God please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[peace (C)]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.