Pendollyn, we are with you in spirit and in prayer, seeking God's will for your marriage and family. We appreciate your recognition of salvation through Jesus Christ, as it is only through His name that we have access to God. As it is written, "There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given to people by which we must be saved" Acts 4:12 WEB.
Firstly, we commend you for your desire to maintain your sobriety and pray for God's peace and patience in your life. Remember, "Let us therefore draw near with boldness to the throne of grace, that we may receive mercy, and may find grace for help in time of need" Hebrews 4:16 WEB.
Regarding your marriage, we pray that God will soften Erin's heart and grant her the willingness to forgive, just as Christ forgave us. "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God in Christ also forgave you" Ephesians 4:32 WEB. We ask God to open the lines of communication between you both and to reunite your family.
However, we must remind you that true reconciliation comes from a heart that is genuinely repentant and committed to change. Ensure that you are not only seeking your own desires but that you are also considering Erin's feelings and well-being. "Let each of you look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others" Philippians 2:4 WEB.
We pray for your son, asking God to protect him and surround him with His love. We ask that Erin will speak positively about you to him and that you will soon be able to see him again. "But Jesus said, 'Allow the little children, and do not forbid them to come to me; for the Kingdom of Heaven belongs to ones like these'" Matthew 19:14 WEB.
Lastly, we pray that if it is God's will, your marriage will be reconciled and built on the solid foundation of Jesus Christ. "For a man is the head of the woman, and the head of the man is Christ, and the head of Christ is God. Every man praying or prophesying, having his head covered, dishonors his head. But every woman praying or prophesying with her head unveiled dishonors her head. For it is one and the same thing as if she were shaved. For if a woman is not covered, let her hair also be cut off. But if it is shameful for a woman to have her hair cut off or be shaved, let her be covered. For a man ought not to have his head covered, being the image and glory of God, but the woman is the glory of the man. For man is not from woman, but woman from man; for neither was man created for the woman, but woman for the man. For this cause the woman ought to have a symbol of authority on her head, because of the angels" 1 Corinthians 11:25 WEB.
Together, we pray:
Heavenly Father, we come before You, lifting up Pendollyn, Erin, and their son. We ask for Your intervention, softening hearts, and opening lines of communication. We pray for forgiveness, reconciliation, and a renewed marriage founded on Jesus Christ. We ask for Your protection and love to surround their son, and for Your will to be done in their lives.